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I've seen the word "degenerate" be used a lot recently, which makes no sense here. How can you not be included on the "degenerate" group? You're on a adult gaming website, so why harass people based on their preferences, this type of attack will change absolutely nothing on the making or the enjoying of games containing said fetishes. If you have a criticism about the game, sure, comment about it, use arguments, think about the structure of the game or maybe the portrayal of said fetish. But hating just for the sake of hating is obnoxious. You should stop and reflect what's the purpose of what you're doing. Think about it, what are you effectively changing by being rude? Unless that's your kink.
 
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Really?
Could you give example's?
So far all my interactions on this site has been polite and accepting.
The easiest answer is NTR, try reading an NTR thread (discussion/game). But there's plenty of haters on GAY, BBW, Diaper fetish, Anthro, and others. I'm sure you must've seen comments like:
"No thanks", "I was interested untill I saw [tag]", "But why is it [tag]?", "[tag] ruined it for me".
(these comments I exemplified are the soft stuff I've seen, not the worst, because it would be too long. Just imagine a lot more "degeneracy" and "that's mental illness" spiced in those hateful comments)
These type of comments are just statements of their hate for the genre (and possibly extended to the people), they add nothing and post them just to provoke. I mean, to post something like that you must feel pretty vocal about those things, they touch you deeply and you have to tell everyone how you wish they did not exist, just as I'm doing now, I wish people would be more accepting and therefore I posted a thread about shaming.
 

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The easiest answer is NTR, try reading an NTR thread (discussion/game). But there's plenty of haters on GAY, BBW, Diaper fetish, Anthro, and others. I'm sure you must've seen comments like:
"No thanks", "I was interested untill I saw [tag]", "But why is it [tag]?", "[tag] ruined it for me".
(these comments I exemplified are the soft stuff I've seen, not the worst, because it would be too long. Just imagine a lot more "degeneracy" and "that's mental illness" spiced in those hateful comments)
Sharing opinions isnt kink shaming.
I love to have links of the degeneracy and that is mental illness.

These type of comments are just statements of their hate for the genre (and possibly extended to the people), they add nothing and post them just to provoke. I mean, to post something like that you must feel pretty vocal about those things, they touch you deeply and you have to tell everyone how you wish they did not exist, just as I'm doing now, I wish people would be more accepting and therefore I posted a thread about shaming.
I think i found the problem.
People sharing there opinions is human nature.
They do not post them to provoke but mere to voice there opinion of the game.
Humans do that all the time.
We like to feel that we are being heard.
It is part of our nature(we are very flawed beings).
Hating a certian genre doesnt mean you hate the people who enjoy the genre.
I for example hate horror stories, femdom, stupid main characters, etc(I hate the idea of being powerless. I have enough of that in real life). Plenty of people who like that and that is there prerogative.
Different strokes for different folks and all that.


I would love to see links where people are kink shaming or wishing for certian fetishes to not exist.
 
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Sharing opinions isnt kink shaming.
I love to have links of the degeneracy and that is mental illness.


I think i found the problem.
People sharing there opinions is human nature.
They do not post them to provoke but mere to voice there opinion of the game.
Humans do that all the time.
We like to feel that we are being heard.
It is part of our nature(we are very flawed beings).
Hating a certian genre doesnt mean you hate the people who enjoy the genre.
I for example hate horror stories, femdom, stupid main characters, etc(I hate the idea of being powerless. I have enough of that in real life). Plenty of people who like that and that is there prerogative.
Different strokes for different folks and all that.


I would love to see links where people are kink shaming or wishing for certian fetishes to not exist.
Opinion: I don't like said genre, but I'm okay with other people liking it.

Kink Shaming: That genre is bad and if you like it you're bad.

If you think I'm talking about opinions then you didn't understand what I meant or you just have not been exposed enough to hateful comments.
 

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Each to their own I guess - but you have to realize most people - even on this site, fall into the "normal" category.
(Whatever that is.)
We are tribal by nature, and at times we can be assholes.
So it's sort of expected.
 
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Each to their own I guess - but you have to realize most people - even on this site, fall into the "normal" category.
(Whatever that is.)
We are tribal by nature, and at times we can be assholes.
So it's sort of expected.
Oh it totally is expected, but I find it funny how they don't see themselves as degenerates, considering where they are and what they are doing. It's just hypocrisy pisses me off.
I just hope with this discussion that we can agree that opinions are not the same thing as shaming and should be treated accordingly.
 

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If you think I'm talking about opinions then you didn't understand what I meant or you just have not been exposed enough to hateful comments.
Ok this is going to be mean:
You claim people are kink shaming and being general hateful.
I asked for evidence as i have yet to experiance this and most people i talk to praise the polite nature of f95zones.
Instead of giving evidence you simple claim it happends and then accuse me of not understanding your post or not having been exposed to hateful comments.

I fully understand your post.
You perceive something that is not there.
Otherwise you could have easly linked a topic or two where people did so.
Instead of admiting your wrong you play the blame game.
Been there, done that.
And i just know you are going to call me part of the problem.
Calling someone out on bullshit hurts the feelings of person being called out.
Ugh i hate being this mean.
I really need to stop wanting to help people.

As for not being exposed.
I spend two whole page's argueing with the dev of take over.
That debate did more damage to my opinion of the game then the game itself.
I just told her she was right and left it at that.
I didnt want to part on hateful ground.

I also spend half a page in porn tropes argueing with a person if maledom is more common then femdom.
I linked 2 page's and a video supporting my point there entire arguement boiled down to:
I dont agree there for i am right.
And since i already had 3 real life arguement that week i wasnt in the mood to indulge the undesireable person futher.

I have seen two people on this site being self rightious.
Two.
Steam forums and wow forums have more jerks then f95zone.

So i will ask again: You got evidence or are you just going to keep claiming we shoud take your word for it.
 
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Ok this is going to be mean:
You claim people are kink shaming and being general hateful.
I asked for evidence as i have yet to experiance this and most people i talk to praise the polite nature of f95zones.
Instead of giving evidence you simple claim it happends and then accuse me of not understanding your post or not having been exposed to hateful comments.

I fully understand your post.
You perceive something that is not there.
Otherwise you could have easly linked a topic or two where people did so.
Instead of admiting your wrong you play the blame game.
Been there, done that.
And i just know you are going to call me part of the problem.
Calling someone out on bullshit hurts the feelings of person being called out.
Ugh i hate being this mean.
I really need to stop wanting to help people.

As for not being exposed.
I spend two whole page's argueing with the dev of take over.
That debate did more damage to my opinion of the game then the game itself.
I just told her she was right and left it at that.
I didnt want to part on hateful ground.

I spend half a page argueing with a person if maledom is more common then femdom.
I linked 2 page's and a video supporting my point there entire arguement boiled down to:
I dont agree there for i am right.
And since i already had 3 real life arguement that week i wasnt in the mood to indulge the undesireable person futher.

I have seen two people on this site being self rightious.
Two.
Steam forums and wow forums have more jerks then f95zone.

So i will ask again: You got evidence or are you just going to keep claiming we shoud take your word for it.
If you don't believe in me, check NTR threads, you'll find it. But don't take me wrong, I believe there's plenty of nice people here, probably even the majority here are cool people. I'm referring to a specific group of people that are really vocal about their hate (NOT OPINION).
And look, I don't mean anything I said as personal attack to you. If you can respect different tastes, then it's fine by me.
 

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check NTR threads
Which one's?
Last time i saw an arguement in a ntr tread was years ago.
And from my point of view it was the ntr crowd bitching other didnt like ntr.

I do think most dev's have solved that quiet nicely by having it be opitinal.
I like how it is a failure condition in the tyrant for example.
And the you can pick if the main character like it or not.
I useally turn ntr off but in that game i keep it on as a failure condition.

Or how people in superpowered complain there is ntr.
The dev made it very clear that:
1: billy doesnt mind sharing his woman.
2: If you dont want them to sleep around dont make them sluts.
3: Wild geas in mindshift exist to turn it off.
There is no ntr in superpowered.
Just woman sharing.
Honestly i would complain more that billy doesnt get evil points for mind controling people and his compleet lack of awareness of how much of a villian he accauly it.
Tho the later i can justify as a character flaw because billy is a horny teenager who idea of being a super hero is being famous.


You might want to see a doctor about that.
 

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I would love to see links where people are kink shaming or wishing for certian fetishes to not exist.
One among many others : https://f95zone.to/threads/teachers-pets-v2-06-1-irredeemable.2880/post-363789

But obviously, the mods do their works, and do it correctly, therefore most of the time it stay less than one day. Enough for a regular reader of a thread to see them, but not enough for someone else to notice what happened. Yet, there's sometimes indirect trace of it, like there by example.
 

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I think i found the problem.
People sharing there opinions is human nature.
They do not post them to provoke but mere to voice there opinion of the game.

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Man, your universe sounds nice. In my universe, there's a variety of poster called a troll that specifically posts to provoke. They have no care about sharing anything other than emotional turmoil. There's a secondary variety of poster called self-righteous that tries to share/enforce values rather than opinion.