Kink Shaming

[Deleted member 229118]

One among many others : https://f95zone.to/threads/teachers-pets-v2-06-1-irredeemable.2880/post-363789

But obviously, the mods do their works, and do it correctly, therefore most of the time it stay less than one day. Enough for a regular reader of a thread to see them, but not enough for someone else to notice what happened. Yet, there's sometimes indirect trace of it, like there by example.

Thanks for the example's.

To the origninal poster:
My condolences that you had to deal with that.
My advise: Threat them like there five year olds.
You know: Believing they are the center of the universe and everything shoud bent to there will.
Just laught at there ignorance in the same way you laught when a child claim he is the greatest painter in the world for drawning a stick figheur and teach them what you think they shoud learn.
I find nothing gets under your lessers skin then threating them like there an ignorant child in need of guidiance.
That you pity there ignorance rather then get mad at there stupidity.
Or just not respont to them at all.
You dont explain to an ant why you are squasing them and ants are higher on the food chain then your lessers.

Man, your universe sounds nice. In my universe, there's a variety of poster called a troll that specifically posts to provoke. They have no care about sharing anything other than emotional turmoil. There's a secondary variety of poster called self-righteous that tries to share/enforce values rather than opinion.

I think you misunderstood my post.
I find that f95zone has remarkably few trolls and self-righteous people.
Compaire to steam or worse the wow forums where they are the norm instead of the execption.

Pre-emptive:
As for why i am arrogant:
By threating humans as ignorant childeren i can dismiss the endless stupidity of our spieces.
An adult doesnt get to claim ignorance.
It is neccery for my own sanity.

 

[polywog]

The lady doth protest too much, methinks

 

[Carpe Stultus]

Every kink is fine as long as the person likes it. Everything else is a no go and needs to be shamed.

People always act two faced like this and there is sadly nothing you can do about it.

 

[gunderson]

OP: In my experience, people are generally at their worst when they're online. Life is hard, reality is disappointing, so they take on the form of their ego-ideal when they're online: whatever asshole put them in a bad mood in some other part of their life, because that asshole is clearly the one with power over their emotional state.

Internet Tough Guys are born out of a lifetime of impotently failing to stand up to real challenges. That's why you're a Degenerate for liking porn as far as they're concerned, or a Weirdo for liking any different fetish than they do. Because you're who they see themselves to be when they embody that bully persona. And they don't have to confront their own masturbation shame because they're already taking their self-hatred out on you.

So please, don't expect them to learn or grow. Just expect them to cry on the toilet every day at a dead end job/in their bathroom about bad marriage (if they ever lose that precious v-card) and never figure out why nothing gets better. And if you can, take some comfort in their well-deserved IRL emotional pain.

 

[Queen Sindel]

I think the community here is mostly very nice and open when it comes to different fetishes but there is definitely some extreme hate for NTR on this site and probably biggest target of shaming and insulting out of any fetish that I saw, hell I like futa and I don't think I've ever gotten kink shamed even once and it's pretty obvious from my signature. Personally didn't see much incest hate but from that link it seems to be a thing as well. I agree completely with you. Kink shaming on a porn based website, be it of any kind is just very strange to me. Especially when sometimes it's just very hard and weird to even rationalize some of the fetishes some people have.

 

[khumak]

I really haven't seen much in the way of people putting others down for being into any particular kink. I've questioned the appeal of some of them but not to put down the people who are into it. I legimately wanted to know what the appeal was from a development standpoint. I've had people take offense to that when none was meant (and had to admit that some of my comments came off more negatively than I intended).

Foot Fetish is a good example for me. I've tried and failed to create foot fetish content before and eventually gave up because I just don't understand it. I suspect that is probably the better move than trying to get people to describe it for me. Other fetishes I've had more success with. NTR for instance I've found some aspects that I enjoy so I can can focus on those aspects and minimize the parts I don't like. I had good feedback from NTR fans on the stuff I ended up with so I was happy and so were they.

 

[Joshua Tree]

I think the community here is mostly very nice and open when it comes to different fetishes but there is definitely some extreme hate for NTR on this site and probably biggest target of shaming and insulting out of any fetish that I saw, hell I like futa and I don't think I've ever gotten kink shamed even once and it's pretty obvious from my signature. Personally didn't see much incest hate but from that link it seems to be a thing as well. I agree completely with you. Kink shaming on a porn based website, be it of any kind is just very strange to me. Especially when sometimes it's just very hard and weird to even rationalize some of the fetishes some people have.

Don't think it's that a extreme or big hate for ntr, at least not in games where it is from the start. Games that suddenly get ntr content introduced, that for sure will get some peoples hemorrhoids flaring up. Or people get upset when some call for ntr in games that doesn't have it. I suspect there is more people asking for ntr in games where it isn't, than there is people asking for ntr removal in games that have it from start.

I'm not into ntr, nor a range of other fetish's, but they don't bother me, nor does it bother me that other peoples have those fetish's. What people get their rocks off to doesn't bother me at all, as long as they don't knock on my door and stuff their junk in my face while doing it (you know, boundaries...).

People that start to kink shame others on this site could just as well delete their account. I don't really know what they do on a site with adult/porn material at all. A church would probably be more suitable with a "holier than thou" attitude.

 

[lemonfreak]

Wait, there are people who think being a degenerate is a bad thing?