You've worded this like someone whose woke, this is a sex game website, so it's no use in trying to make the idea of women being treated as sex toys in a game as a negative, but no I don't fully agree with you, they can also be fleshed out characters, games like Being a Dik are highly popular for that reason, but that requires good writing which is harder than relying on fetishes.
I get the impression you where trying to make some awful woke point about these women being able to choose, they aren't real, like the badies you kill, there entire purpose is to make the game more enjoyable for the player, what I do agree with is that they are predominantly fantasies and most people don't tend to fantasize about getting sloopy seconds.
Whether or not all games should be the same, this should have the NTR tag, so people don't waste their time.