Looking for Harem discord servers.

[hakarlman]

EDIT: PLEASE recommend Harem porn game channels, where the community doesn't mind me asking questions that might upset them. My inquiries, although sometimes whacky, are rooted in good intentions.

I recently found a Harem discord server. The users there provided extremely valuable information towards making a great Harem game, but sadly I got banned despite being civil and polite. They found out that I also like NTR, and I think that was a deal breaker. EDIT: It turns out the channel is just for NON-NTR harem discussion, it's literally in the title of the channel, but I didn't see it. This was the channel btw, great channel for Harem discussion:

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There was a user named Joegamerdude84, he was providing extremely, extremely valuable information.

I would love to join a Harem game discord community where I can talk about Harem mixed with NTR kind of game. If you guys know of any please list them here.

EDIT: Anyways, if someone can recommend a good Harem discord channel that doesn't mind NTR discussion as well, that'd be great.

 

[Entropylol]

hakarlman

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try this

 

[hakarlman]

hakarlman

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try this

This is perfect for NTR, I wonder if there's one for Harem?

 

[Nutluck]

I would suggest joining the discord of games you like. GL the game I work on has a very active discord, I am sure other games do as well. I don't know of any general discord servers that are active though that caters to that.

 

[hakarlman]

I recently found the perfect Harem discord server. Everyone there was so helpful, but the mods banned me when they found out I'm mixing NTR with the Harem of my game.

I think they misunderstood my posts. I was genuinely trying to make a list of all the complaints and problems they've had with games that mix Harem and NTR.

The feedback there was extremely helpful towards making a high quality Harem game.

I have no way of rejoining that server either, I don't remember the name of it.

All I remember is there was a user named Joegamerdude84, and he was EXTREMELY helpful. If anyone knows that guy, or knows the Harem server he's on, let him know i'd love to give him early access to my game, so he can critique the Harem aspect of it, and I'll listen to his criticisms and complaints to make the perfect Harem experience

 

[Entropylol]

I recently found the perfect Harem discord server. Everyone there was so helpful, but the mods banned me when they found out I'm mixing NTR with the Harem of my game.

I think they misunderstood my posts. I was genuinely trying to make a list of all the complaints and problems they've had with games that mix Harem and NTR.

The feedback there was extremely helpful towards making a high quality Harem game.

I have no way of rejoining that server either, I don't remember the name of it.

All I remember is there was a user named Joegamerdude84, and he was EXTREMELY helpful. If anyone knows that guy, or knows the Harem server he's on, let him know i'd love to give him early access to my game, so he can critique the Harem aspect of it, and I'll listen to his criticisms and complaints to make the perfect Harem experience

What was the server?

 

[hakarlman]

What was the server?

I don't remember the name sadly. Discord doesn't offer a way to see what servers you've been on.

I can remember some users that were on the server:

kirk
joegamerdude84 (incredibly helpful and professional)
dkcross; or similar
frogg22; or similar

The feedback in that channel was incredibly helpful in regards to games that mix Harem + NTR. I would love to be able to re-join it, get unbanned, and if the mods prefer, I just won't say anything, as long as I can just read what everyone is saying and use the search on the top right.

Everyone was complaining about all the problems games have that try to mix harem & ntr, the information there was so god damn valuable. What a huge loss. I should've just kept my mouth shut, lol.

If you're making a Harem + NTR game, that's the discord you want to be in. Just don't say anything and read all the complaints, then adjust your game accordingly, to make a better user experience for your players.

 

[Jaike]

I recently found the perfect Harem discord server. Everyone there was so helpful, but the mods banned me when they found out I'm mixing NTR with the Harem of my game.

RIP

All I remember is there was a user named Joegamerdude84, and he was EXTREMELY helpful. If anyone knows that guy, or knows the Harem server he's on, let him know i'd love to give him early access to my game, so he can critique the Harem aspect of it, and I'll listen to his criticisms and complaints to make the perfect Harem experience

JoeTheMC84 ?

 

[Chalker]

I think they misunderstood my posts. I was genuinely trying to make a list of all the complaints and problems they've had with games that mix Harem and NTR.

The feedback there was extremely helpful towards making a high quality Harem game.

Because one of the biggest complaints would be ntr exists in the game in general. Knowing that your waifu(s) would/could cheat on the MC if the opportunity arose. It's like knowing your gf would message other dudes on tinder if you didn't take her on a date that day.

Or something in a similar vain.

 

[hakarlman]

I found the discord channel!

Harem and Non-NTR visual novels

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Now that I see the title of the channel, I understand why I was banned. I was debating the pros-cons of how NTR can make Harem better. I learn through debate, so I couldn't help it, lol. But god damn, the information in that discord is valuable as hell for anyone who is making a Harem game only, or Harem+NTR. If you're researching the most common complaints about NTR and Harem mix, that discord is a gold mine of dos and donts.

If a dev wants to make some serious $$$, go into that channel and just listen to those guys, their feedback is pretty solid. (Don't talk about NTR in there, or just don't talk at all, and use search feature in top right to gather feedback, they make very good criticisms).

EDIT: I wish I was still in that channel. I need to ask a serious question. "If your in game best friend was dying, would you let him drink your mothers breast milk to survive, or let him die?"
A) let him drink directly from her tit
B) she exposes her tit and squirts breast milk into a glass
C) she leaves and returns with milk
D) fuck him, let him die, MAMA'S MILK IS MINE ONLY!!!!!!!!

 

[hakarlman]

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Because one of the biggest complaints would be ntr exists in the game in general. Knowing that your waifu(s) would/could cheat on the MC if the opportunity arose. It's like knowing your gf would message other dudes on tinder if you didn't take her on a date that day.

Or something in a similar vain.

I've heard this complaint. That the mere fact that the NTR possibility exists is enough to keep a portion of the Harem crowd away, even if it's a really good Harem game. So far, my polling and all my research shows me that at least 50% of the Harem community would probably enjoy the game I'm making. That's pretty good. The other half want exclusive Harem, meaning nothing else, just the MC and the girls, I can understand that.

 

[Chalker]

I've heard this complaint. That the mere fact that the NTR possibility exists is enough to keep a portion of the Harem crowd away, even if it's a really good Harem game. So far, my polling and all my research shows me that at least 50% of the Harem community would probably enjoy the game I'm making. That's pretty good. The other half want exclusive Harem, meaning nothing else, just the MC and the girls, I can understand that.

They'll enjoy it, sure! Many harem fans will still play it if the content is avoidable, but if you're aiming for a monetary incentive, you must balance what you add to the game.

For example, If I like X,Y and Z but dislike W, I'll play games with any combination of the ones I like, and I'll play a game with W if I can avoid that content while still enjoying Z. But for my money? I'll support games focusing on X, Y, and Z first and foremost. Then maybe an X and Y game. etc.

If a game has W, X, Y, and Z, I'll be way less inclined to support it unless the parts I like are executed exceptionally well. If a game has U, V, W, X, Y, and Z, I'll be even less likely to support it because I'm a fan of half the content, but for the other half, I'm neutral to or hate.

There is pros and cons for broad appeal and niece appeal; finding a sweet balance to it is very hard... And then your content still has to be good on top of that.

 

[Simulacrum29]

EDIT: I wish I was still in that channel. I need to ask a serious question. "If your in game best friend was dying, would you let him drink your mothers breast milk to survive, or let him die?"
A) let him drink directly from her tit
B) she exposes her tit and squirts breast milk into a glass
C) she leaves and returns with milk
D) fuck him, let him die, MAMA'S MILK IS MINE ONLY!!!!!!!!

D and he would respect it if he was a "friend"

 

[Simulacrum29]

They'll enjoy it, sure! Many harem fans will still play it if the content is avoidable, but if you're aiming for a monetary incentive, you must balance what you add to the game.

For example, If I like X,Y and Z but dislike W, I'll play games with any combination of the ones I like, and I'll play a game with W if I can avoid that content while still enjoying Z. But for my money? I'll support games focusing on X, Y, and Z first and foremost. Then maybe an X and Y game. etc.

If a game has W, X, Y, and Z, I'll be way less inclined to support it unless the parts I like are executed exceptionally well. If a game has U, V, W, X, Y, and Z, I'll be even less likely to support it because I'm a fan of half the content, but for the other half, I'm neutral to or hate.

There is pros and cons for broad appeal and niece appeal; finding a sweet balance to it is very hard... And then your content still has to be good on top of that.

In addition to that Harem is a fairly vanilla kink so appeals to a fairly wide audiance, NTR is not (humiliation and so on are apart of it) people following that kink are either cucks themselve or are only in it for the pictures and dont give a shit about the story.

 

[Chalker]

In addition to that Harem is a fairly vanilla kink so appeals to a fairly wide audiance, NTR is not (humiliation and so on are apart of it) people following that kink are either cucks themselve or are only in it for the pictures and dont give a shit about the story.

Well, a harem is usually more of a catalyst to be able to employ other fetishes. But the main point is a power fantasy.

 

[hakarlman]

Since I'm banned from that amazing channel, I can't ask questions like this:

"Do Harem lovers enjoy playing games with female protagonist who ends up getting fucked by the whole town?"

This sucks. There's got to be more Harem dedicated discord channels out there, that talk about Harem porn games.

 

[RedPillBlues]

I can remember some users that were on the server:

redpillblues

Wait what? Im on no such server, or any related one. You sure it was me or is ther another Redpillblues in the adult gaming space I don't know about?

 

[hakarlman]

Wait what? Im on no such server, or any related one. You sure it was me or is ther another Redpillblues in the adult gaming space I don't know about?

Probably some one else then, I'll edit your name out.

 

[RedPillBlues]

Probably some one else then, I'll edit your name out.

I joined and left and it was just me with the name, maybe I was mentioned or something. Anyway while looking for my long lost brother I noticed another dev in there who only makes NTR games and they even had a role. Strange they would kick you and not them when you are at least trying to put a harem path in your game.

 

[Simulacrum29]

Since I'm banned from that amazing channel, I can't ask questions like this:

"Do Harem lovers enjoy playing games with female protagonist who ends up getting fucked by the whole town?"

This sucks. There's got to be more Harem dedicated discord channels out there, that talk about Harem porn games.

I cant speak for every one so I would say probably not, I know I dont play games like that. If I want something like that I go read a Hentai or watch pornhub (like I mentioned earlier I go there for the pictures or a single scenario, not for a story or emotional invest).

A game in which you are the MC a.k.a. a part of the story, is for me fundamentaly different from a medium where im just an thirdparty observer. You don't watch porn and get jealous of the male actor (if you are Sane), You don't read a Book and decide suddently that you are the Count of Monte Cristo. Yes you can follow the story of the person portraied in the medium but its not you, you can feel for them if something shitty is happening to them, but its the same feeling you have when your neighbour breaks his leg

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You know, or rather you can imagine that the situation sucks, but at the end of the day, do you realy care? I don't!
You are not heartbroken if your best friend gets cheated on. It sucks for him and you will do everything to help him get over it, but the overall impact on your live is only slightly above zero.

People tent to play AVNs as selfinsert, thats why you get an shitstorm every time a game hits with a non nameable MC, you can read the first few pages of thread for "seven realms" (or something) if you are interested in that.

So If shit happens it dosn't happen to some rando. It effects us directly. The only way you could succeed would be if your story is so abysmaly bad that no one wants to selfinsert and its only a string of meningless sex scenes one after another.

Games got abandoned because Mom was shown having sex with Dad in the preview pics.

Every two weeks there is some idiot trying to make a game with NTR so skillfully added that everyone would enjoy it. Im on this side for 5 years and are playing AVNs for longer than that, and it never happend. It simply will never happen. Such Talk is like the rambling of a mad man.

Here take this sentence and fill some other niche Kink in it like Bestiality, Necrophilia or Scat.

I'm trying to make a game with ____ so skillfully added that everyone will enjoy it.

Read them out loud, and tell me you would pay this person for multiply years every month. To make a Harem game. What are you suppost to do? Fucking Corpses in different states of decay? Shagging different farm animals?

What you are trying to achieve is like using olive oil to run a car or using motor oil in the kitchen. Sure you can try it, but nobody will appreciate the outcome.

On another note for your research and the question about fem protac even if it is only tangential. There are pretty much porn parodies of every manga that exists. And I told you that I read Hentai Mangas for mindless faps, the thing is if I watched or read an Anime/Manga I personally can't enjoy the parody content for that franchise any longer. Yes, I'm weird that way.