I absolutely see your point, it's somewhat grindy, but in it's defence, it feels ... balanced, I guess? Suntanning takes time, working to make money takes time, even if you buy books to raise stats, they don't raise them that much or that quickly, and you still have to work to get the money to buy them ... Everything seems to progress roughly the same pace, which is good, might have become lopsided otherwise. It's a slow but steady pace if you micro manage correctly. Patience is rewarded mostly, IF you get martial arts from the master in the first summer, if you don't you're sorta screwed. Or you have to VERY patient.