Lovense compatible games list
Virtual Succubus
The making of a slut
3dxchat lovense
WildLife
VR HOT
Heat
The last hope
Breeders of the Nephelym
Solas City Heroes
Mage Kanade's Futanari Dungeon Quest
Besti
FarmD
Lustbound
Reveal your monster
There are multiple plugins for the game "Virt-A-Mate" that add automatic or scripted toy support, for example "ToySerialController"
There are more but if you want a more comprehensive list you should check out
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They have lists of mods that can sync Bluetooth toys to movies and even games like Counterstrike or Minecraft