Why mind controlling games are not considered as rape games? for instance I have seen a lot of games with mind controlling tag don't have rape tag. It seems like neither developers nor people care about it. Mind controlling means the woman is unable to consent, and therefore technically it's either rape or sexual harassment depending on what happened.
I get what your saying and personally agree. However, there are other ways of viewing it.
If we looked at mind control from a simple view point as to just making the woman have sex. She is forced to go against what she desires to do or not do. In that case it would be rape. A game that depicts this would be
The Company One individual is given a drug to turn into a raging slut while on the inside she is screaming no.
But lets look at it from a more complex view. We change her point of view as to desire having sex.
If you convince a woman without using coercion to sleep with you then is that rape. She at first thought no and you changed her mind. Lots of things affected people's judgement and desire for sex, aphrodisiacs, alcohol, pot and unless the person is seriously drunk or at a state they can't make a rational choice the courts and most people don't consider it rape when the person choose to engage in sex with another person.
There are a number of ways one can convince a person to change their mind without coercion.
You could present a logical argument. You could make an emotion argument. You could use an emotional trap before and or after encounters. hero damsel scenario, nightingale scenario, I misjudged you, ... There is a long list of them.
Hero Damsel - you rescue her from some shit bag or annoying guy. Can backfire because she thinks you don't think she can take care of herself.
Nightingale - named after Florence Nightingale - nurse - reason is she helps you from injury. While this more known for the patient falling for the nurse it also has the opposite affect also. Not an easy one to pull off involves you getting hurt and her feeling sympathetic. The getting hurt is easy the part about her feeling sympathy not a guarantee.
I misjudged you. - You are looking for attractive women that are at the point of being annoyed from men hitting on them. example: you try asking them to hand you napkins that are stacked right in front of them at the bar. They think you are trying to hit on them. They realize their error and feel bad about it. ~ Fair warning this doesn't work by itself. You need an intrigue trap or something else to work with it. Having 3 or 4 other women sitting at a table waiting for you to come back usually works. Curiosity get the better of them and they want to know why that many women are with you. Simple answer are best, "I could tell you you would need to ask them." it doesn't make you look like a bragger or shit bag. They now have a reason to come to the table. It also doesn't feel to them like they are being hit on. In short by taking yourself out of the equation as to your motives you've made it a simpler choice for them.
Now lets look at it from a magic perspective:
a. How does the magic affect the person. There are a lot of ways something magical could affect the mind.
b. It could induce or reduce feelings of one type or another.
c. It could alter memory.
d. It could modify our perception of morals.
e. Modify sense and visual perception.
f. It could even do those things in different ways.
g. What if all it did was change the way the person feels by implanting an emotional or logical argument in their memory as if they thought through it themselves or had someone else discuss it with them.
Consider that last one. It would be the same as whatever argument means or discussion someone else would have with them. It would still be their choice in how they chose to view it. Maybe, the spell does in a form what I do when trying to convince a person except it doesn't make the wrong choice because it has the benefit of seeing how the person would respond to it.
Just because it doesn't appear she has a choice doesn't necessarily mean she doesn't actually have a choice.
I won't get into the tags issue and site policies and stuff. Enough other people covered it and this is already long enough.