I personally have zero interest in femdom, bdsm, or domination of any kind. Just hot, consensual sex, with people doing what feels good. A man's ass can be a sexual organ without it being gay. Of course, I also don't have anything against gay and bi content either, which is an issue for some people.When it comes to pegging it's sometimes barely considered femdom in japan if it's consentual so there's quite a few dating sims where a character who as no femdom content but will have a pegging scene.
And i can kind of understand where they are coming from, if there's no connotation of domination then it's really just sex.