Cuckolds convincing themselves that they are the real alpha men...?
You are basically contradicting yourself in the same sentence, you do realise that, right?
Now, also try to realise that not every man that shares his woman is an actual cuckold, as there are more 'roles' in a swinging community.
Now, don't you think this is actually sad and much of a double standard? What exactly was up with the man that was suggesting it in the first place then, if women agreeing with their male partners suggestions makes them into whores?
I very much agree on this, as long as both sides agree and there is an actual discussion, what would others matter? It's not like they are forced to join in or anything, so I don't see why they don't just walk away from it all...
I am glad there are still people like you around.
At one point, something about 20 years ago, there was a "sexual revolution" where people were allowed to be free of mind and spirit and these things would actually air on regular TV after 11PM. Nowadays though, especially with the coming-up of internet, people seem to have forgotten:
1- Respecting others, including their preferences and choices
2- Life isn't too be taken too seriously. It is not like you are going to make it out alive in the end anyways.