It's not there are moments like thisBest Naruto games out there, I feel at this rate we may see the completion of the game for about 3 more years.
I got to see that first option because i went out of my way to increase her stats for several days after she was done collecting Naruto's blood, otherwise i'd appear as "??" without a hint to even slightly push you into going out of your way, that's not good design and is not only Ino the one with hidden options, Sakura and Amaya have some as well which can drastically change how the relationship develops but you're trying to find things without any warning, which sucks.