To be fair, swinging can be a natural progression for hotwifing (not saying it's the only one, mind you, but it can be, and Le Stag is currently easing Laura into it very slowly (with the help of the ever-reliable Ashley

), so as far as I'm concerned, this totally works, atm.
Besides, if you don't want it, pretty sure you'll be able to block it and not have it in your game, you'll just "lose out" on some content (it's already possible to ask Tara to not send you any more pictures, for example--although I sure don't know who in their right mind would want to do that, lol

).