Netori vs Netorare & Netorase

NdinguSuya

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I come in peace y'all and I don't wanna start any arguments but I just want to know why NTR lovers love it so much. Coz I've been so curious about how the genre became so popular because I always felt like the opposite (netori) would be more popular imo. So can explain what about it y'all like it so much.??
 

drag0nf6y

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because vanilla slop is boring? only real ones fw ntr/netorare, it's the only true form of it. netori and netorase are just more goyslop for vanilla and harem fans, so it's not surprising they like those watered down versions of true ntr/netorare
 
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NdinguSuya

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because vanilla slop is boring? only real ones fw ntr/netorare, it's the only true form of it. netori and netorase are just more goyslop for vanilla and harem fans, so it's not surprising they like those watered down versions of true ntr/netorare
But netori can do everything netorare can my guy so I don't understand ur argument.....there's nothing vanilla about it
 
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tanstaafl

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But netori can do everything netorare can my guy so I don't understand ur argument.....there's nothing vanilla about it
For people like drag0nf6y it' isn't just the cucking. It's the destruction and the corruption. It's an incredibly one note outlook on vn/adult game kinks, but people like that are purist about it. They can't admit that netori has just as much corruption and destruction because it's the MC doing it in netori instead of it being inflicted on the MC. They're basically masochist netorase lovers.
 

drag0nf6y

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But netori can do everything netorare can my guy so I don't understand ur argument.....there's nothing vanilla about it
netori is when the mc is doing the cucking, which is boring as hell and way too similar to vanilla and harem stuff (which is also boring as hell). that's why ntr/netorare is superior than those pathetic sub genres
.........you can still cuck ppl in netori and so the sadism part is still there
that’s exactly why it’s boring as hell. it’s not you doing the cucking, it’s the mc/protagonist, and whether it hits or not depends on if you even wanna project/self insert onto him (which i and many usually don't, except in some cases)
 

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netori is when the mc is doing the cucking, which is boring as hell and way too similar to vanilla and harem stuff (which is also boring as hell). that's why ntr/netorare is superior than those pathetic sub genres

that's what makes it boring as hell
I like this argument because it directly contradicts the "I don't self insert" statement that so many people claim.
 
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For people like drag0nf6y it' isn't just the cucking. It's the destruction and the corruption. It's an incredibly one note outlook on vn/adult game kinks, but people like that are purist about it. They can't admit that netori has just as much corruption and destruction because it's the MC doing it in netori instead of it being inflicted on the MC. They're basically masochist netorase lovers.
Masochist implies pain is being inflicted either emotionally or physically and the receiver is enjoying it. You assume netorase lovers stay for degradation and humiliation, while it can certainly be that, it's not the norm nor do they feel pain or loss, and I wouldn't call it a pure netorase game if it were. However you can say for certain that NTR/Netorare lovers do love the humilation and the loss part, That's why they love the obnoxious blond gyaru cause he's simply the best at inflicting it.
 
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Masochist implies pain is being inflicted either emotionally or physically and the receiver is enjoying it. You assume netorase lovers stay for degradation and humiliation, while it can certainly be that, it's not the norm nor do they feel pain or loss, and I wouldn't call it a pure netorase game if it were. However you can say for certain that NTR/Netorare lovers do love the humilation and the loss part, That's why they love the obnoxious blond gyaru cause he's simply the best at inflicting it.
which is why I added the descriptor. Self inserting netorare lovers are netorase (I.E. willing cuck) but with a masochistic bent because they want it to hurt.

Edit: And perhaps sadist at well, since they want the destruction and corruption on the LI as well usually.
 
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which is why I added the descriptor. Self inserting netorare lovers are netorase but with a masochistic bent because they want it to hurt.
I still wouldn't tie it to netorase simply because netorase implies there's willingness from both FMC and MC, but in most cases the FMC is just stolen.

If I were to self insert as a netorase masochistic lover it simply wouldn't work because while the hurt and the loss is there, the consent and the willingness from both parties isn't.
 

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which is why I added the descriptor. Self inserting netorare lovers are netorase but with a masochistic bent because they want it to hurt.
afaik, real ntr/netorare fans (such as myself) don’t really self insert/project at all, unless it’s a rare case. like if the fmc is a waifu tier character, or the mc is genuinely relatable or well written (which is like 1 in 100 games). i’d say 95–98% of ntr players aren’t projecting onto the mc. it’s more about watching the corruption unfold, not feeling it as the mc. if anything, the rare self insert is into the bull, not the one getting cucked (that's what netorase/ntrs/nts fans does xD). plus, ntr usually has better animation/art compared to most genres, so it just hits harder visually
 
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tanstaafl

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afaik, real ntr/netorare fans (such as myself) don’t really self insert/project at all, unless it’s a rare case.
You already killed this argument for yourself. Take any netorare game you love, flip the perspective MC and you have netori. Done. But you think netori is boring. The only way the SAME STORY becomes boring depending on perspective is if you self insert.
 

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afaik, real ntr/netorare fans (such as myself) don’t really self insert/project at all, unless it’s a rare case. like if the fmc is a waifu tier character, or the mc is genuinely relatable or well written (which is like 1 in 100 games). i’d say 95–98% of ntr players aren’t projecting onto the mc. it’s more about watching the corruption unfold, not feeling it as the mc. if anything, the rare self insert is into the bull, not the one getting cucked. plus, ntr usually has better animation or art compared to most genres, so it just hits harder visually
Valid point until you read comments of FMC is a whore for cheating on MMC.
 
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drag0nf6y

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You already killed this argument for yourself. Take any netorare game you love, flip the perspective MC and you have netori. Done. But you think netori is boring. The only way the SAME STORY becomes boring depending on perspective is if you self insert.
netorare just hits harder because of the betrayal and the gut punch it has (none of that lands the same in netori/netorase). when it’s the mc doing the cucking, it just turns into some goofy power trip or domination thing most of the time. which is so lame and boring
 
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drag0nf6y

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Don't be so sure about that, 90% of NTR games have these huge walls of texts, targeted at the MC(Aka, the player unless it's a named MC with good lore.) to humiliate and degrade.
have you played mirage's defection? that might change your perspective, since it's one of the best written ntr games with both vanilla and ntr routes on this site
 

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I shake my head at the level of coombrainedness you'd need to think a story being "boring" or not is for a large part a result of its central kink. Instead of, I don't know, a coherent, creative and original plot (instead of a cookiecutter plot), polished and fitting writing, engaging and (sufficiently) believable characters (instead of stock characters), and relevant and refreshing themes. Sure, the kinks being appealing to you helps for an adult story, but if you're old enough to be on this site you're too old to turn them into a big reason why a story's "boring".
 
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tanstaafl

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netorare just hits harder because of the betrayal and the gut punch it has (none of that lands the same in netori/netorase). when it’s the mc doing the cucking, it just turns into some goofy power trip or domination thing most of the time. which is so lame and boring
Yeah, because you're self inserting/projecting/empathizing/anything you want to call it. Every word you are using to describe what you think is literally about how you self insert. And even better, you are fully, 100% supporting my claim that you are actually a masochistic netorase guy.
 
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tanstaafl

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I still wouldn't tie it to netorase simply because netorase implies there's willingness from both FMC and MC, but in most cases the FMC is just stolen.

If I were to self insert as a netorase masochistic lover it simply wouldn't work because while the hurt and the loss is there, the consent and the willingness from both parties isn't.
Sure, I agree for some if not most people into netorare. I was specifically talking about drag0nf6y in my post.
 

NdinguSuya

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For people like drag0nf6y it' isn't just the cucking. It's the destruction and the corruption. It's an incredibly one note outlook on vn/adult game kinks, but people like that are purist about it. They can't admit that netori has just as much corruption and destruction because it's the MC doing it in netori instead of it being inflicted on the MC. They're basically masochist netorase lovers.
Exactly bro that's why I said Netorare and Netorase because it's the same thing to me.....not narrative wise but what the consumers like