Ah okay good, I misunderstood what you meant by "stop ntr from happening". Because usually its a very overt: WARNING WARNING. So it kinda kills the purpose.
I guess I just like being taken for a ride, rather than having actual choice thats just clicking yes or no (like "a weird guy approaches the girl, do you stop him" - like bruh of course I know where that leads, not stopping him makes this a netorase, not a netorare.)
I want me being ass at the mechanics part of the game to naturally lead to ntr. Perhaps having options to have hard difficulty so I dont have to pretend to be really bad.