Not for me, but good luck. Off topic can someone explain the fascination with virtual cucking? Honestly I just don't get the appeal but it seems as though at least 1/3 of the games coming out recently feature it or even make it the whole basis of the game like this one.
Is it a voyeurism kink? Some kind of submissive kink? I don't know like I said just can't wrap my head around it. I always said the greatest misconception people carry is that everyone thinks like them when in fact almost no one does.
Your question is really old, however, I want to answer it as I need an answer for myself as well- that and I'm into so many weird kinks like rape, loli, nts, ntr, harem, incest, voyeurism, and corruption.
Generally speaking, a lot has to do with the generation you grew up in. For example, I grew up with the anime harem generation of the 90s, so I find the idea of monogamy for men, biologically and mentally speaking, kind of peculiar, since men could impregnate multiple women, but women ended up being more promiscuous than men for gen z due to feminism, hypergamy, and the indoctrination of equality for the poor- the wealthy and elite are still very much patriarchal.
For rape, it's the idea of control, and domination, since most of the newer generation grew, including kids of the 90s grew up without control over their lives, or society. Being able to control women, is a fantasy where you're able to control your insecurity of how promiscuous women are, through projecting yourself as the guy who took their virginity before someone else could. Or, you're a lonely 30 year old virgin, and were never exposed to romance, relationships, and social development due to shyness, anxiety, or whatever issue you had- yet want to feel apart of it, the rampant sex and entanglement, so you channel it through your anger of being ostracized, ie. inc*l. And since men are generally stronger, it has a "puts them in their place" kind of affinity.
For incest, it goes back to the idea that women aren't loyal, compared to the boomer generation where couples stayed together even if they fell out of love, and hated each other. If you grew up seeing parents like that, you tend to want or imitate them, especially if that's perceived as the normal through media, like movies, books, and video games. Think of incest like a form of restraint of women, and someone you didn't need consistent maintenance, like a relationship. There's no courtship, appearances, insecurity, or material burden, just plain feelings and lust- like when we were young. As well, it could be a form of projecting if you're an only child.
For harem, think of it as a reversal, where in reality, women can take their pick, and choose any man they want, as men are starved of intimacy, and give men that same choice, except they didn't have to pick one. A woman biologically speaking, can only choose one, since they can't have multiple babies from multiple men, however, men can impregnate as many women as he wants, so in a fantasy, why only allow men to only pick one? Monogamy can also become monotonous with only one women, especially if most women in real life are- basic.
For voyeurism, it's either the idea of sharing intimacy with other people that isn't your partner without cheating, or it's a form of ego trip and contempt for those who don't have what you have.
Corruption, mostly bottled up animosity for women, emphasis of how naive and gullible women are to "fall for chads and alpha males" who use and dispose them. It reinforces the idea that women can easily be entrapped by blackmail, threats, violence, etc. in exchange for sex- to the extent that it debases sex from something sacred and intimate, to a materialistic tawdriness.
For loli, it could be a projection of a lost childhood, such as having fun, being with friends, and maybe growing up too fast without having experienced it. Or, it could be a desire for simplicity, without the duplicity of adulthood. Personally? I didn't really care much for loli, until my entire sex feed became saturated with snusnu kinks, women with breasts bigger than their head, with thighs the size of mount everest. I guess my ideals are different from people from other cultures, such as the black and hispanic community who prefer big breasts and thick thighs, so I oppose it through loli, especially with all the attention and hate against pedophiles lately in real life, it makes you feel like a retard and a maverick, gets me off. It's just the feeling that society is changing too fast, in the wrong generally accepted way, ie. feminism, tolerance, pacifism, and compliance of the state of the world.
For netorare and netorase, it's many things for many people, depending on which perspective you look at it from. For some, it's hatred for simps, white knights, and SJWs. For women, it could be having the best of both worlds (ie. money, personality, power) through cheating or having a back up plan/man (without consequences), contempt for men, fear of being cheated on so they cheat first, showing men how easy intimacy is in some twisted form, wanting security by being helpless and dominated but being in control of it due to cheating, or how much love they have for their partner that just being with their partner alone isn't enough to express it so it gets projected into someone else.
For men, it could be contempt for men (indoctrinated through feminism, boomer generation chivalry, SJW culture), contempt for women (by devaluing them as human beings through their cheating), narcissism, self abasement/masochism, low self esteem, parasocial attachment, anticipation of grief (ie. interest in serial killers)/insecurity or anxiety, cognitive dissonance, disillusionment of social interaction and relationships.