I see where your coming from. And it makes some sense. However i had personal conversations with the dev anondive over the game. He mentioned things like the games girls not being 'fuckmeat' And the game not being for 'coomers' and how he liked to wave his writing degree in others faces and rejected the idea of adding a cloatihng system/dress up/outfit system to the game per the reccomendaitons of another team member.
I am merley speaking from personal experince and my own opinons and what you can notice playing the game and it's habit of really leaning in on something lewd about to happen, then doing the 'And then someone else happens!' Or a 'And then they get interrutped!' Multiple times.
The creator anondive even bad talked other games and didn't want this game posted here at all as he considered f95 to be site only for porn games. Which is silly given the 'no sexual contnet' tag. But it does showcase that he has a low opinon on other games i think.
Yeah fair enough. He would always show his displeasure when people talked about other NSFW games and kinda imply that his stuff was always different/better. I never really cared since frankly I couldn't care less what one NSFW game dev thinks about content from another NSFW game dev.
It was also pretty clear from the year and some months I was in there that he kinda hated coomers, so I get where you're coming from with all that. That server's regulars were all sorta people that praised the game's writing first, to the point where anyone coming in for the NSFW stuff was sorta shunned or taught that you just don't talk about any of that most of the time (especially since the server got purged of all its NSFW stuff around 2021 I think).
I get what you mean about the purposeful misdirection, the writing and gags sorta lean into that a lot and from a general weg/nsfw consumer I can understand the frustration. When I first played the game I sorta got pissed that all the scenes were just light ecchi stuff, but on replays i moreso paid attention to the writing and enjoyed my experience more. If you're just playing it cuz you want an NSFW game about KND then you really should just look elsewhere cuz this game probably won't do it for you. Dive is pretty fuckin blunt about how he wants his project to be, but luckily its not like he's being a dick and then asking people for patreon subs. Even if the guy can sometimes be a blunt asshole, I still have more respect for him than guys that push out shitty "trainer" games with those anime 3d models and then ask for patreon donations so they can keep making their effortless copy paste updates.
Also yeah I remember him talking about the situation with this website. Kinda weird that he didn't want it here, and his only reason was "its free on itch so why put it on a piracy site" iirc (as if f95 doesnt have probably double if not triple the userbase of itch which would be easy promotion but whatever). It was always kinda clear the guy had a stick up his ass, but it was a bit too fun watching him shit on other members of the discord who were being cringe so I never put too much thought into it until now. Even then, I still am gonna patiently wait until the Act 1 finish update comes out cuz I do enjoy the project a lot. Hopefully time away from having to manage a server will lighten the guy up a bit.