Out of curiosity because I don't see it discussed very much, how are people's stats looking like?
These are pretty much the final stats for my main route, I don't claim those stats are FULLY optimized but I didn't half-ass them either. I gave priority to athletics gains because it seems like the rarest stat.
For Ian his lust stat is a bit neglected, far too often his opportunities for lust gain were pitched against chances to gain wits or charisma, but otherwise I'm pretty satisfied with his stats. I kept Ian being a good boyscout at work so I'm a bit short on will points, combine that with the fact Ian keeps getting incredible opportunities to spend his will points (spending will to smoke weed with the gang can give him a full level to both wits and charisma, spending will during his busy week can let him get an extra activity done) and will is becoming quite the hot commodity for Ian.
The contrast with Lena's stats is pretty glaring, I have been trying my best to increase her wits and charisma but it really feels like she just doesn't get as many opportunities as Ian.
Her lust is honestly shockingly high to me, I'm sure other people have probably gotten even higher lust scores for Lena by playing her as maximum slutty, but in my route I haven't aimed for that at all! (didn't date Robert nor Mike, use stalkfap just to post artistic pictures, not fully giving in to Seymour during the photoshoots). And in most opportunities when I have to choose between lust or wits/charisma, I have been giving priority to the later (gave lust some priority in a couple of early game events so I could get Lena to take off her shirt when first helping Stan so I could progress his content while still getting professional shoots with Danny). The only decision I might change in the future as the repercussions become clearer might be to not sleep with Louise, but even then my lust points wouldn't take much of a hit.
Also as a complete opposite to Ian's side, my Lena has WAY too many will points and pretty much nothing good to spend them on. Since I'm keeping her more or less responsible, the expenses with Robert and Mike aren't even remotely interesting, taking Molly doesn't give even close to the same benefits for her as smoking weed does for Ian (and comes with some rather obvious potential disadvantages regarding Billy). This honestly makes me a bit paranoid there will be a storm of shit and anxiety in Lena's future where she might need to spend a lot of will.