You can call it what you want, but Ian exploits the situation to his advantage. We know in hindsight that Wade and Cindy are going to split up. But Ian doesn't know that. He suspects things are not going well between them, but he can't know that they wouldn't eventually work it out. But he can and does make sure that they dont. There's no way you can deny, that Ian doesn't betray his best friend, because he does. The main difference between Ian and Jeremy, is that Ian ultimately wants to split Wade and Cindy up, so he can have Cindy all to himself. Jeremy on the other hand, just wants a bit of fun. He's not trying to separate Ian and Lena, even if he believes their relationship is doomed.
The original posts that I was responding to, DID suggest that Jeremy's betrayal with Lena, was much worse than Ian's with Cindy. I was simply pointing out why I believed that was untrue. Personally, I don't believe Jeremy intentionally sets out to betray Ian. He's pretty much led there by Lena, until his weakness for pussy, undermines his better nature. Surely, you can see that Lena instigates everything. And without that, Jeremy would never have succumbed. Is Jeremy weak? Yes he is. But does he intentionally set out to betray his best friend? No he categorically doesn't. You can't say the same for Ian, with Cindy. He knows exactly what he's doing. Like Lena he's the instigator. He pursues Cindy, when she's at her weakest, after her row with Wade at the club. He knows this is his chance. And he ruthlessly takes it.
And for your information, I don't support cheating either. I just like playing games that involve cheating. You do recognise, that there's a major difference, between actually doing something and playing fantasy games involving it instead?
