Ian is well designed to be a cucked beta. You can have him having trouble getting it up, having most of his LI taken by bigger / bigger dicked dudes or by the female protag, jerk off to videos of it on him, perv on his crush's internet smut - but not be able to get with her, get cheated on by his girlfriend / crush with a big-dick asshole Adonis AND a blacked stereotype character, lose his job and start delivering pizzas. That is probably the play for you. Ian is not very dominant looking or acting and many of the other male characters are both in appearance and in content. Also, his content tends to be more romantic- whereas Lena's LI are all assholes so it is far more lust based.