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The difference is that it's an isolated, one-time sin which is easier to be secretive about and doesn't require Ian to play detective as long as she stays loyal and doesn't hook up with Jeremy behind Ian's back. If both Jeremy and Lena don't speak about that one time, it's unlikely that Ian learns about it, unless Louise speaks up that Lena sucked Jeremy off as part of the dare, but if Louise isn't jealous of that (who she considers Jeremy to be her commited boyfriend), then it might be an argument for Ian to keep his jealousy in check as well because he has even less reasons to complain than Louise, and not make a scene over a stupid game and he knows quite well that Jeremy only considers official girlfriends off-limits anyway. Ideally the decision whether to get mad or forgive Lena would be up to the player (but that would require Ian to be loyal himself, otherwise he'd become a hypocrite), just like Lena can forgive Ian for a harmless kiss with Holly. And if he doesn't forgive Lena, it might break Ian and Lena off (just like certain events can put a stop to Ian x Alison). But in regards to Jeremy, Ian didn't really ruin his friendship with him even when he learned that he hooked up with Alison, so I don't see why it has to be any different about Lena. In both cases Ian can tell Jeremy about his appreciation of Alison or Lena, and in both cases Jeremy ignores it. ian_lena_love is no different from ian_alison_like, and that didn't stop Alison from wanting Jeremy's D. You might say that Lena is special to Ian, just like Holly was special to Lena, but Lena complained because Holly started avoiding Lena because of Ian's actions and she also felt guilty that she was stealing Holly's chance for happiness by being with Ian.But are you saying that the Lena x Jeremy situation is resolved right now? That by not sleeping with him and stopping all further interaction between them, they are in the clear? Certainly not. This is already a grave sin by both of them. Ian is not gonna be cool with any of this just because they were technically not a couple yet. This is precisely the same reasoning Lena used to break things off with Ian if he bangs Holly. And I hope neither you, nor the characters would assert that banging is crossing the line but BJ and sexting is somehow ok.
Lena blowing Jeremy in the party doesn't compromize Jeremy's behavior towards Ian in the slightest, and neither affects Lena's feelings for Ian so there's no real basis for complaint or stopping his relationship with Lena other than a fragile ego which Ian doesn't really have as evidenced by his acceptance of Lena hooking up with Robert or Alison hooking up with Jeremy. It can be argued that there should've been more choice for Ian in the situation with Robert but too late for that. Ian is established to be a pretty understanding guy.
I think you're exaggerating the "betrayal". On one hand you have a one-time drinking careless fun before Lena committed to Ian which is no different from Alison hooking up with Jeremy, on another is an intentional affair behind Ian's back which would hurt 1000% more and would definitely make Jeremy Ian's enemy. Ian can't really blame Lena for playing Ivy's game and demand that she stays loyal for him when he didn't even confess his true feelings. Also, Ian treats Jeremy quite well even when he starts fucking Alison (can complain a couple of times but in the end accept Jeremy's version of the bro-code). All because Ian understands that he can't demand anything from a single girl. Even when Ian learned about Lena and Robert, he accepted that despite his dislike of Robert. They're all adults after all, and intention is what matters the most. When Lena is cheating on Ian, it's clear she doesn't value their relationship enough. But if she had a one-time fun before they were even together, then it's more likely that Ian would accept that, with minor relationship value decrease with both Jeremy and Lena, but not be critical enough to break up the paths.It would logically be a potentially friendship ending event, which wouldn't be that much different than if he found out that they were cheating behind his back for a long time.