Unaware in the City and Insexity are, well um at least they're better than this. UitC is in active development still (updated in October) and pretty good IMO, Insexity is finished and I remember it being rather decent but maybe a little lacking for a "completed" game.
I really like UitC. It really has what the hot pizza game doesn't have, but UitC suffers from a small but very significant thing. It's very messy. And I'll explain. The developer wanted it to be a game with choices and things. But after the elections, for example, my character passed the tests at Jack's and now the character works in a building and not on the street. And that's it. I can't quit or decide that I want to work on the street because the game doesn't give me the same thing with partners. I had two partners that I kicked out and now I'm trying to get them back, but the game can't because there's no such option. The same with love. I had the boss of the coffee shop and we broke up and there's no way to go back to him. What I mean to say here is that the developer really made a great game. But if you make a choice, then it's your choice. There's no way to change it and accept consequences for your actions. It's a shame. I would be happy to do stupid things and pay a price. Right now, the only thing you can do is get pregnant and have children and decide where they'll go. An orphanage or a foster family or parents. This is new, but unfortunately it doesn't change anything. But I would be happy if it affected the city. If, say, you choose to be orphans, then that could be interesting. Maybe it would increase the homeless population and that would affect something. In short, the game has potential, but unfortunately the developer is not successful or trying to be organized.