Poll: Do you prefer femdom to lezdom, or vice-versa?

Do you enjoy both femdom and lezdom games or not?

  • Only femdom games

  • Both but I prefer femdom

  • I like both in equal measure

  • Both but I prefer lezdom

  • Only lezdom games

  • Neither (Irrelevant option for lost chads who wandered onto the wrong thread)


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LAKueiJin

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I'll try to be brief - I know some ren'py coding, experimented with Stable DIffusion and various AI art tools (upscalers, inpainting) and editing some of the results in Gimp and PaintNett and I have 2 pretty unique game ideas, of which one is for a lezdom game with both a dominant and several submissive paths, and another one for a femdom game in which the male MC will have several submissive paths and 1 or maybe 2 vanilla-ish ones with light femdom. (no dominant paths as I'm not at all into maledom)

I can of course first work on one of these projects and, if it does ok, later on start the second and develop the 2 of them concomitantly, (I wouldn't be the first dev who does that) BUT I want to gauge the market a bit first, as some threads I read on this website gave me the impression that significantly fewer people play lezdom games than femdom ones. My lezdom game would be somewhat more linear and there are many assets and resources I already found that I could use for it, so it would in some ways be a better choice as a first project, but I do not want to put months of effort into making a game that will earn me 5 dollars a month in support, :LOL: so here I am asking this question.

I thank you all for your time, and feel free to comment if you'd like to clarify your vote (eg some people might only like lezdom with dominant/submissive protags, some might only like femdom with a dominant female protag as opposed to a submissive male one etc) and/or give me any advice, which is also welcomed and appreciated!

For anyone that's curious, both of my ideas are what I'd consider atypical historical fantasy, but have different settings and genres.
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Evizzy89

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I'll try to be brief - I know some ren'py coding, experimented with Stable DIffusion and various AI art tools (upscalers, inpainting) and editing some of the results in Gimp and PaintNett and I have 2 pretty unique game ideas, of which one is for a lezdom game with both a dominant and several submissive paths, and another one for a femdom game in which the male MC will have several submissive paths and 1 or maybe 2 vanilla-ish ones with light femdom. (no dominant paths as I'm not at all into maledom)

I can of course first work on one of these projects and, if it does ok, later on start the second and develop the 2 of them concomitantly, (I wouldn't be the first dev who does that) BUT I want to gauge the market a bit first, as some threads I read on this website gave me the impression that significantly fewer people play lezdom games than femdom ones. My lezdom game would be somewhat more linear and there are many assets and resources I already found that I could use for it, so it would in some ways be a better choice as a first project, but I do not want to put months of effort into making a game that will earn me 5 dollars a month in support, :LOL: so here I am asking this question.

I thank you all for your time, and feel free to comment if you'd like to clarify your vote (eg some people might only like lezdom with dominant/submissive protags, some might only like femdom with a dominant female protag as opposed to a submissive male one etc) and/or give me any advice, which is also welcomed and appreciated!

For anyone that's curious, both of my ideas are what I'd consider atypical historical fantasy, but have different settings and genres.
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I put 'like both equally' although I like femdom more, but not enough to say that its my preference if that makes any sense
The lezdom game setting personally sounds more appealing to me
matriarch, elves, slaves is honestly too copy/paste for me

although my opinion may not even be valid because of my honest bias and dislike for ren'py/daz things
 
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GratuitousLove

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Well I'm more into lezdom thing myself, especialy since I only like girl and love dominating as much as submiting to it offers me more variety. But femdom only wouldn't prevent me from trying the game for sure.
 

Mister_M

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Well, you probs can guess what my vote was :D

Tho even if I'm not into lezdom, as you know I do prefer the proposed mix of wuxia, gongwei, zhiguai and xianxia much more as the general style and setting for the game (it doesn't have to be porn then) than of the other one. Can't you mix the two into one game? :)
 
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Sunshaded

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(Well, technically femdom could include lezdom, but of course I knew you meant straight femdom in the poll.)

I voted "both but I prefer femdom". As long your lezdom is good, I think there should be market for it, and I think doing a simpler game (as long you have a concept that motivates you) may be a good call, since you'll learn so much from it. Though to be honest, from your description, the lezdom game doesn't sound simple, if anything it sounds more complex than the elf one. (I'm sort of reminded of Mistress vs Slave, and how that game was more slow-paced and intellectual than sexy to me. Hopefully you could strike a good balance.)
 
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Johnny1035

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This is a bit of a trap you can fall into with market demographics. While femdom is more popular than lezdom, there are also significantly more femdom games you'd have to compete with. Content designed to appeal to the most people may not be as successful as content designed to appeal to a smaller audience that is starved for content.
 
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Rosvos86

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While femdom games are certainly more popular, I think lezdom games have a more dedicated community since there are very few pure lezdom scenarios. Femdom games have to be really unique to compete in the market; considering you are using AI the best course of action is to make a lezdom game. Also I feel like the concept for the lezdom game is more intriguing than the femdom one.
 
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Grandy_UiD

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Lezdom is a huge kink for me, it's the hottest thing I can imagine. Way too few games with it, unfortunately.
 
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I started my sexual journey only watching lezdom, because I felt disgusted of myself.
Now with self-loathing behind me (most of it) I find it that femdom is my favourite thing as I have mostly accepted who I am.

Nevertheless, I think creators like you should work on what they are passionate about, that will make the game so much better and make it easier for you to keep going!

Plus if it is a game made by you I will play it no matter if it is lezdom or femdom or both :)
 
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LAKueiJin

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The lezdom one sounds much more interesting with the xianxia premise. Looking forward to what you will make in the end anyways!
I put 'like both equally' although I like femdom more, but not enough to say that its my preference if that makes any sense
The lezdom game setting personally sounds more appealing to me
To be fair part of that is definitely also because my latest ideas were for the lezdoom game, and looking back on my OP I made it sound more interesting than the other one here. That said, it's true that the setting would probably stand out more among porn games.

While femdom games are certainly more popular, I think lezdom games have a more dedicated community since there are very few pure lezdom scenarios. Femdom games have to be really unique to compete in the market; considering you are using AI the best course of action is to make a lezdom game. Also I feel like the concept for the lezdom game is more intriguing than the femdom one.
I think it could compete decently based on the writing and the fact that I am going for a very distinct kind of relationship from most femdom games on this website, even though it inevitably will draw influence from games I played and enjoyed. The femdom game does sound more stock setting-wise, especially from a brief description like this one, but I think its main draw lies in the psychological domination aspect and MC's relationship dynamic with his mistress (I think I made a longer post about it just a couple months ago before I knew AI art existed - here it is ), yet you are right that some people will definitely just skip it if they see an "AI art" tag.

I anyways do not intend to close this poll anytime soon (a bigger sample size is always better) and even though my original suspicion seems to be confirmed by the current results, if you include the "Both but I prefer femdom" people in the count, almost 2 thirds of the current respondents also play lezdom games, so you might be right! :)

This is a bit of a trap you can fall into with market demographics. While femdom is more popular than lezdom, there are also significantly more femdom games you'd have to compete with. Content designed to appeal to the most people may not be as successful as content designed to appeal to a smaller audience that is starved for content.
You raise a good point - the content would not be designed to appeal to the most people though I assure you. I have a vision for both of these games, so neither of them would be the fan-servicy type of game that bends to whatever supporters want to see. I just have limited time and ability (I'm not an artist, hence the need for AI art, and not a programmer or IT specialist either) and currently more ideas for the lezdom game, so I started this poll to see whether spending a really long time working on an ambitious AI art lezdom game is a viable option to start out as a dev.

Money is not and will never be my primary motivation, (I'm actually even an anti-capitalist and pro-piracy when it comes to triple A games, so out of principle if I manage to release either of these projects I will always have them available for free, even if slightly later than for supporters, and I will probably also include something like a 2 dollar tier for people from developing countries to also be able to get earlier access) but it is a massive effort to make even a first update of a big game like the ones I envisioned, and it would certainly feel deflating to put in all of that effort and garner no interest... I honestly didn't expect this many people to vote and comment in less than a day from posting the poll, so that's certainly a good sign.

I also have a day job and other irl commitments, so releasing act 1 of either project may take me many months even if I work on it dilligently, but I'm grateful for all the advice and engagement and honestly it's already dispelling some of my original worries that I'd be wasting my time! :giggle:

I started my sexual journey only watching lezdom, because I felt disgusted of myself.
Now with self-loathing behind me (most of it) I find it that femdom is my favourite thing as I have mostly accepted who I am.

Nevertheless, I think creators like you should work on what they are passionate about, that will make the game so much better and make it easier for you to keep going!

Plus if it is a game made by you I will play it no matter if it is lezdom or femdom or both :)
Don't forget to love yourself - kinks are just kinks, they don't change who you are as a person and are no reason for shame or self-loathing, no matter what various religions or philosophies one subscribes to might say. And thank you for the words of encouragement!

Well I'm more into lezdom thing myself, especialy since I only like girl and love dominating as much as submiting to it offers me more variety. But femdom only wouldn't prevent me from trying the game for sure.
Thank you for weighing in! I've got loads of work to do anyways, so while I'm waiting for the results on this and still trying to make a decision, I'll probably focus on doing things that would be useful for both projects, like learning more advanced ren'py coding or experimenting with some more SD checkpoints, LORAs and VAEs.

Well, you probs can guess what my vote was :D

Tho even if I'm not into lezdom, as you know I do prefer the proposed mix of wuxia, gongwei, zhiguai and xianxia much more as the general style and setting for the game (it doesn't have to be porn then) than of the other one. Can't you mix the two into one game? :)
(Well, technically femdom could include lezdom, but of course I knew you meant straight femdom in the poll.)

I voted "both but I prefer femdom". As long your lezdom is good, I think there should be market for it, and I think doing a simpler game (as long you have a concept that motivates you) may be a good call, since you'll learn so much from it. Though to be honest, from your description, the lezdom game doesn't sound simple, if anything it sounds more complex than the elf one. (I'm sort of reminded of Mistress vs Slave, and how that game was more slow-paced and intellectual than sexy to me. Hopefully you could strike a good balance.)
I feel like I've answered most of you guys' points in my replies to other people in this post, and I anyways have DMs of yours to answer, so I'll get back to you in greater detail there. Still, thank you for chiming in as well!
 

Anonymous100

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Heya, great to see you're going public with this! I wish you success with this project. Also the irrelevant option in the poll is funny lol
 
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DnDfan

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For what it's worth I prefer lezdom personally, feel it's a under-served fetish in adult gaming, and like the premise of the lezdom game more. Best of luck with whichever project you end up doing.
 
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yilinshe

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I want to watch a lesbian NTR male protagonist and train the male protagonist into a slave! (convinced). It's a pity that the Japanese made one, but there are no English games.
 

amaranta

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For me personaly, lesdom is much better. Femdom still has mating themes, switching roles, pushing that lazy fuck so he become at least looks attractive and so on. Lesdom closer to pure domination. You just make a pleasure toys from yours competition.