POLL: You love Harem games. If you could choose if a female NPC is single or in a relationship, what would you choose?

You love Harem games. If you could choose if a female NPC is single or not, what would you choose?


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JC07

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My problem is not "single" or in "a relationship." That's of little relevance to me. I like Neteri, I like mothers, I like virgins, in other words I consider myself a very eclectic guy. I just don't like NTR/swing/sharing/voyer or anything close to that.

In short, my problem is not with the girl's marital status, as long as her past sex life is not forcibly rubbed and shoved down our throats. Like, if I'm going to be with a girl or am interested in her, seeing her having sex with another guy or mentioning how she was destroyed in a BBC gangbang is in no way something that will make me "horny", as a good portion of DEV believe players will find it "hot". Seeing mommy being fucked by her rival will never arouse feelings of lust in me. It will arouse disgust, anger, anguish, and other bad feelings.

The bottom line, whether or not you are in a relationship is not very important to me, as long as your current or previous sexual adventures are not pushed on me.
 

hakarlman

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My problem is not "single" or in "a relationship." That's of little relevance to me. I like Neteri, I like mothers, I like virgins, in other words I consider myself a very eclectic guy. I just don't like NTR/swing/sharing/voyer or anything close to that.

In short, my problem is not with the girl's marital status, as long as her past sex life is not forcibly rubbed and shoved down our throats. Like, if I'm going to be with a girl or am interested in her, seeing her having sex with another guy or mentioning how she was destroyed in a BBC gangbang is in no way something that will make me "horny", as a good portion of DEV believe players will find it "hot". Seeing mommy being fucked by her rival will never arouse feelings of lust in me. It will arouse disgust, anger, anguish, and other bad feelings.

The bottom line, whether or not you are in a relationship is not very important to me, as long as your current or previous sexual adventures are not pushed on me.
Based on your post, I already know you'll like 80% of what I'm making.

However, there will be some women who are degenerate whores (some literally working as whores). Would you ever consider reverse corrupting them, turning them from sullied whores into good, respectable and loyal women? The world isn't a perfect place. Some women are good girls, and some have been destroyed by society, will you save them or ignore them?

What if one girl in your Harem was a virgin, and you took her virginity, and she's a total angel, but her sister ended up being a total whore. Now she's asking you to help save her sister from an immoral life. Would you do it? Her sister is also hot. What if you could turn her sister into a good girl, then have a threesome with two sisters? Are scenarios like that acceptable, hot, or a complete and total turn off (to convert women from whores into good girls?)
 
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paust.alex

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I would never romance a woman in a relationship, because for her to be mine, she would have to betray her current partner, and I don't like traitors. Who can guarantee that one day she won't betray you the way she betrayed her ex for you?
Such people should not be trusted.
 
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JC07

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Based on your post, I already know you'll like 80% of what I'm making.

However, there will be some women who are degenerate whores (some literally working as whores). Would you ever consider reverse corrupting them, turning them from sullied whores into good, respectable and loyal women? The world isn't a perfect place. Some women are good girls, and some have been destroyed by society, will you save them or ignore them?

What if one girl in your Harem was a virgin, and you took her virginity, and she's a total angel, but her sister ended up being a total whore. Now she's asking you to help save her sister from an immoral life. Would you do it? Her sister is also hot. What if you could turn her sister into a good girl, then have a threesome with two sisters? Are scenarios like that acceptable, hot, or a complete and total turn off (to convert women from whores into good girls?)
I don't know if you are asking my opinion about your project or not, but I will answer anyway.

As I said in my reply, it's all a matter of how this will be implemented, meaning it's relative. For example, I don't know if you've ever played Love and Sex: Second Base, but there are several girls there who are in relationships and even real prostitute (Lexi). And I like this game a lot, I'm kind of cool with it because we can "avoid" everything we don't like.

In this case, Lexi is a prostitute where we know that she sells drugs, lures people to rob them (including the mc himself fell into her traps), and also "sells her body". But she is not a "disgusting" person, and after we start on her way, she stops doing those things, there is even a scene where if you already had sex with Lexi and but not yet had sex with Aletta, you go to a party with Lexi, Aletta, and the MC and Aletta's boss, the Boss will want to pay Lexi for sex, she will ask you if you accept or not, that is, it depends on you that something happens between her and the boss. I have not reached the end of her route or Aletta, but so far I have not seen any single scene of them with other people and we know that Aletta has an affair with the boss, but as far as I am in the game I have not seen anything between them, of course if you play right, if you play wrong you will witness Aletta giving a blowjob to the boss. In conclusion, even if the girl is an official whore, I have no problem with her, of course depending on her behavior, if she is a disgusting slut who talks about her shit with other clients like she likes orgies and that kind of shit, then I will probably reject any loving relationship with her, can I help her out of that shit? Yes. But I don't want a romantic relationship with her. But if she is a prostitute, but not a complete slut (as I said above) leaving her job at work and not telling us all the shit she has done for money and how many guys she has fucked, then, well I will do everything to help her get out of this shit and I will give her as much love as the adorable little sister.

I do not know if this is clear, I do not speak English. Even my Portuguese is terrible and I'm terrible at putting my thoughts into words, but what I mean is more like, it all depends on how the girl behaves and is presented to us, not forcing us to watch the shit they did or do before they met us and especially not after they are involved with us. So yes, even if she was a prostitute, stripper, or anything close to that, she can be "cured" and deserve affection, again, depending on what her personality is like and how she behaves.
 
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Adabelitoo

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It depends. Does it change her story? Does it change anything else? Does the existence of that other guy has a meaning? Or will he be just another mindless and forgetteable male NPC who's only reason to exists is satisfying the fetish of taking someone else's woman away?

If he exists only for the fetish, then I really don't care is she's married or not. If he does have a role in the story, if the game asks me if I want that guy to exist then I'll think there is something off here, and by off I mean poorly implemented and lacking, but if the game drives me to a point where I can choose if that guy lives or die, thus leaving his woman single or married, then that's where I finally will feel like anything of this makes any sense. At that point it depens on how much I like/dislike the guy. I may do a save a play both branches if I find the game interesting enough.
 
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OmegaZXA

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Honestly, it depends on how the girl (and her potential BF) are written, as well as where the focus of the game is. If your focus is on developing interactions between the MC and his girls, I'm usually okay with it. If it's all about cuckoldry or demeaning the girls, that's a turn-off for me.

A good example IMHO is Love & Sex, where you have a girl named Samantha getting married to your old roommate. Turns out said roommate is cheating on her (along with other even creepier habits), so I have no problem cucking the prick while also getting a hot girl to fall for me.

It's the same value I give to any other kind of porn: as long as the girls are cool with it and the other guys suck I'm into it. Even in hypnosis stories, if the girls are usually into it and their BFs are either nonexistent or total assholes I can enjoy it. But when you do cucking or raceplay it's less about enjoying the girls and more about inflating your own ego.
 
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Fazed

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Well It depends on their relationship. If I see them together and Both of them are happy then I will be less inclined to step in and I would likey leave them alone. They are happy so let them be. Otherwise Id just be acting like the same type of NTR asshole that schemes to drive a wedge between a good couple just to feed his own ego. (still don't want to watch them do stuff together though)

On the other hand if the woman is not happy but then we find out that she regularly cheats on the guy instead of ending it then obviously she cant be trusted. What's to stop her from doing the same with the MC?

Ideally she would be unhappy in her current relationship and the guy is an asshole(abusive, overly possessive w/e) and the MC would simply be a friend trying to make things better but it exhalates into something more.
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What if one girl in your Harem was a virgin, and you took her virginity, and she's a total angel, but her sister ended up being a total whore. Now she's asking you to help save her sister from an immoral life. Would you do it? Her sister is also hot. What if you could turn her sister into a good girl, then have a threesome with two sisters? Are scenarios like that acceptable, hot, or a complete and total turn off (to convert women from whores into good girls?)
As for the innocent and corrupted sisters question. If I could pull her out of it and she stays loyal afterwards then yes. Past life doesnt matter all that much to me, its gone and I don't need to hear about it. If she uses her...acquired skills, solely for the MC and harem gettogethers... that is cool too. (you know what i mean. Girl on Girl doesn't offend me, Its hot but I know some players don't like that. Make it an option i guess.)
In the end Id be doing a good deed by removing someone from a volatile environment and also potentially get the girl in the end. Win-Win.
 
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freedom.call

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As long as the MC is single little else matters to me. I don't have a particular interest in going after women who are in a relationship though.
 

Loganfin

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I've always loved games/stories/comics where the MC seduces and fucks married or engaged women behind their man's back. Proving what a stud he is compared to the other dude. Not EVERY woman in the game of course, but some of them. And then especially so if he can then get them pregnant, its extra hot.

Also cool with the theme of her husband simply being cool with her fucking around, and her thinking that the MC i so hot that he's worth it. Never interested in humiliating or shaming anyone.
 
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For a game I'd prefer them to just be single. I'd rather read a story dynamic about how the dude is able to juggle keeping the harem happy, rather than adding unfaithful women to a harem. Unless you're sneakily going to make the story about it imploding on the guy because of the old expression 'once unfaithful, always unfaithful'?
 

Gojii

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Imo the main purpose of adding most characters to a harem is they're available and persuadable to accept the arrangement either being okay with it, vying for the MC "I wont let you have him to yourself" tropes, actually getting along with possible other prospective harem members and not taking issue "we each take him to pound town 1,2,3 days a week/in a row and switch/etc" or the like as the likely situation.

Most I would say are almost entirely single, or are in a situation that they have a motive to split. If I wanted to play a game where I'm going around cucking and collecting all the waifus, then it should be that as the focus. But more or less a traditional harem type game is going to be more trying to win over the targeted characters more than zeroing in on spending time trying to cuck other dudes.

I would say being able to become platonic friends with those in relationships giving bonuses to win over their single friends and other girls would be a interesting concept (like you really dont like one characters personality, but she's close with a waifu you want. Become buds with the bf and she then helps you get with the girl.) Things like that sound more fun/interesting ways to do it than just playing pokemon with waifus, like just play koikatsu or something at that point imo.

It seems like with the polling options you want some NTR frenzy where MC just goes around taking waifus and cucking dudes.... like theres a TON of VNs like that and you're hitting a saturated market if so. There's a lot of nuance/settings that could be done with a more vanilla harem situation to go with. You can always add more content later after you flesh out the core, barebones minimum of what you want to do in a game.
 

Once_Up

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I prefer single Li but in a relationship is fine IF they're not your sisters, and also the little sister MUST be a virgin no matter what, and I prefer every sister(big sis or twins)to be a virgin.

If they're MILF I prefer them to be in a relationship, I find the story to be more compelling that way like in A Mother's Love.

Also, Not MILF Lis that is in a relationship with a jerk and already has sex with him is really putting me off for some reason.

Another thing is showing sex scenes between them for me is forbidden, if it happens I'll delete the game instantly. It's not an NTR, but it is equally bad for me.
 

Loganfin

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I prefer single Li but in a relationship is fine IF they're not your sisters, and also the little sister MUST be a virgin no matter what, and I prefer every sister(big sis or twins)to be a virgin.

If they're MILF I prefer them to be in a relationship, I find the story to be more compelling that way like in A Mother's Love.

Also, Not MILF Lis that is in a relationship with a jerk and already has sex with him is really putting me off for some reason.

Another thing is showing sex scenes between them for me is forbidden, if it happens I'll delete the game instantly. It's not an NTR, but it is equally bad for me.
Wow, we couldn't be more different in what we want.

I really don't look for "love" in games. I want casual, fun sex. And I'd really prefer if none of the women were virgins. I want experienced ones who know what they want and are after a good time. I'm also completely and totally fine with them having sex with other dudes, as long as its not cheating behind the MC's back or done to hurt him.
 

Loganfin

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Just out of curiosity, what would be a good term for a game where a MC has sex with a bunch of different women that he has varying relationships with (some close, some casual), and those women are also all free to have sex with other men and women as they choose?

If "harem" isn't the right term, what is the tag that I'm looking for?
 

Once_Up

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Wow, we couldn't be more different in what we want.

I really don't look for "love" in games. I want casual, fun sex. And I'd really prefer if none of the women were virgins. I want experienced ones who know what they want and are after a good time. I'm also completely and totally fine with them having sex with other dudes, as long as its not cheating behind the MC's back or done to hurt him.
Well, if I want casual, fun sex, I'd rather watch porn. But, for VN that I need to invest many hours into and also to emotionally invested with the characters in-game, I prefer it to be romantic and loving.
 
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