That being said... 2009 is a long time ago. Sixteen years is quite a while, and both the internet and the world in general have changed significantly since then.
To put that into perspective: Tumblr and Reddit (founded in 2007 and 2008 respectively) were still obscure upstart things back then, and smartphones were still a small fraction of the online devices. Patreon hadn't even been founded yet (that was in 2013), Facebook hadn't gone public yet (that was in 2012), and the internet as a whole wasn't nearly as consolidated back then.
Fast forward to today, and we have things like creditcard/online payment monopolies coercing Patreon, Pornhub and OnlyFans. Even though creditcard companies coercing people has been a thing since George W. Bush, the sheer scale of it has only expanded over the years.
That is true BUT you've also kept it very one sided, only focusing on the negatives.
In that same time frame mainstream media has shown more violence, incest and bestiality than ever before, the western indie porn game scene grew by leaps and bounds, large platforms began allowing the sale of adult games, service platforms embraced the NSFW content community and the inevitable push back against porn, porn games and NSFW content was proportional to it's growth and is even lagging behind in terms of the advancement of technology.
The last part is probably why there "seems" to be a scramble to deal with it in some cases but nowhere near the scope that is being mentioned in here.
On top of that, there has also been a slow but steady rise of anti-porn laws. The UK had its ban on 'extreme pornography' already in 2008, and there have been similar (albeit generally less extreme) bans in other countries since then.
This is due to the fast paced advancement in technology and the slow reaction on the part of governments and the fallout that they are now seeing. It is also driven in most of these cases by child safety online.
To add to that; banning things in general has been in vogue throughout the West since then. My own country, the Netherlands, banned bestiality and the depiction of bestiality in 2010, raised the drinking age from 16 to 18 in 2014, and is currently in the process of banning fireworks. That might seem like an obscure little example - but it does fit into a broader pattern that extends to the West as a whole.
This is the natural progression in terms of changing social / cultural norms, growing populations and the influence of cases in other countries. This is how it has always been, countries adopt new policies, regulations and laws as the world changes and some things fall out of favor (found to be harmful, become no longer socially acceptable) and others become more popular. Whether it's cocaine and opium or nicotine or teenagers in porn or now bestiality, drinking and fireworks.
What you are talking about is not "a sign of the times" but how it has always been.
For internet-related developments, just look at how Patreon et al got coerced into banning incest and basically any other kind of (legal!) taboo content.
For the record and to give some context to the next part of my reply,
1) I hate the rules forced on patreon as much as anyone.
2) There is clearly an agenda being pushed when the payment processors force these terms on platforms like patreon.
That being said, it is limited pressure and no matter how hard the push it will never be as bad as you think it is going to be because history will ALWAYS repeat itself. Western countries shot themselves in the foot when they told all the people they had freedoms because now, while people are willing to accept some limitations, they will never accept or allow full bans / removals.
Whether it's alcohol, guns, sex, recreational activities etc. etc. You just have to look at the reactions of people during the lockdown for covid to see a small glimpse of it.
Also look at the campaigns against violent video games,
even when sex was involved they were not able to come close to changing everything and nowhere near able to push that onto other media. The response was people were grudgingly willing to accept ratings added but the campaigners would never and will never be able to remove it completely, let alone push it into other areas.
So when etempy says it's like a cancer and "then they will move onto other games with similar topics then not so similar topics like just any game with sex or adult content." they are wrong, it will never get that far.
So even though it's good not to catastrophize things, we should still keep in mind that things have changed, and that porngame scandals might not turn out like they did when Rapelay had its fifteen minutes of fame.
You are right that things have changed and things across the board will continue to change but even elevating this is a scandal is giving it more importance than is necessary.
Details being shared are not proportionate to the actual response that the game received, for example you said the game was banned in Australia, Canada and the UK, it's not banned, it was just removed from steam. They are still in the process of deciding if it should remain online.
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"Mr Kyle also suggested that the regulator should make a call on whether the game should remain online.
"Ofcom is the regulator," Mr Kyle said. "They are tasked with enforcing and they will make the judgment as to whether content is removed in an appropriate time."
Stopping it from being sold on steam and stopping anyone from purchasing it / supporting it on any platform are very different things.
The main drive behind this is child safety online and while they might try use that to extend their reach, the scope will not reach what has been warned of in this thread.