You can just visit his office during the day with Emma (or any other girl) to do a plan without needing to be caught first.I’m sorry y’all, I’m sure this has been asked a dozen times but I’m not willing to sift through 1300 pages. How do you get Ms. Frost to be okay with public stuff and threesomes? Idk how to get her caught, that way I can do the Xavier plan thing.
For threesomes and public, IIRC, you try to open her sex menu with another girl close or in public and she'll innitiate conversations where you can convince her to go along with breaking the respective taboo. I'm pretty sure, if you don't convince her or decide to not press the issue, you'll have an option to initiate the respective conversions in her relationship status menu.