when literal insane people casually throw in their fetish like its a completely normal and reasonable thing

yes the fact that we have so many of the same game is what makes it really annoying. If it was the only game like this I'd understand but someone has to innovate by now
Supposedly the game samantha by the ex-dev who was originally involved with this game has the opportunity for sex but the game is buggy as shit and I couldnt get past the first level
things that would bring the genre forward/make for actual gameplay:
possibility to be fucked, molested, attacked, or complimented by NPCs. In other words any kind of reaction aside from shock or disgust. Also forceful stripping, chasing the player (maybe you have to hide from a stalker), stealing your clothes so you have to sneak through a certain path, etc.
possibility to do the same actions to NPCs, or any sort of dialogue based interactions
existence of exhibitionist NPCs
ability to play male character - either being the flasher yourself which would of course need the first two things implemented to be enjoyable, or one could make a management style game where the player character is male but you can force your female subs to do these exhibitionist challenges and either observe them or play as them
With those mechanics you could make a sandbox style game that can support simple stories/scenarios, e.g. playing a male character and trying to sneak in and out of your girlfriends house without being caught by the dad or spouse and maybe you lost your clothes so you also have to get home naked without the cops arresting you. Even without story support if you can walk around as a man and flash or assault random women and it has the same gameplay elements of not getting caught it would be more enjoyable.
Also have to say the lack of any of these mechanics in story sandbox/sim games is really a shame. In a game like aunt's house why can't I just get my dick out and get a reaction?
I guess this is just one of many examples of how the current state of adult games where no one wants to work together and would rather make the same thing as everyone else on their own patreon holds back development of anything fun. Hopefully in the next couple years when AI reactivity and voicing becomes cheaper and better people see the possibilities