Discord servers are generally a bit too circlejerk-y since it's out of the way and hidden in a metaphorical hole, where the only people that go there are the ones that actively search it out specifically.
This always translates to:
A: A slow server with hundreds of lurkers where nothing happens and only like 2 people talk, usually about something irrelevant like politics or money.
B: A hyper-moderated server where the artist/dev spends half their time banning people/bots and it actively harms their work ethic.
C: A circlejerk where all the users simp for the owner, borderline worship, and anyone that joins the server who is even slightly negative gets shouted at by fifty users and permabanned by the mods, which were chosen AS mods because they're the biggest simps/donators, not because they follow the rules or are great people.
D: A server where people join just to dump on the owner for being lazy/slow, and the owner agrees with all the complaints, but is too depressed/medicated to do anything about it, so they pop in once a week to complain about something IRL.
E: A 100% dead server with maybe 10 users where the owner plops in content once a month and gets a emoji or two, if that.