It's true that KidP is something I reject, but I do have animal animations to use them with Defeat. In Skyrim, if my female character is defeated in combat it doesn't mean death but it brings “erotic” consequences, whether it comes from human, beast or creature. However, see real zoo is unpleasant to me. I don't think that makes me a freak, a bad or a despicable person. Video games exist to entertain you, disconnect you from reality and if possible, do everything you would never think of doing in real life and even condemn. You know, I don't think that enjoying GTA will make you tend to do drugs, sell them, drive drunk, hit and run, steal or kill among dozens of other things you can do there.
I'm not saying that what you expose is wrong, only that these issues are more complex than they seem at first glance, and that the vast majority of empathetic people would be reluctant to take them out of the plane of the video game.
So, let's continue to enjoy paywalled mods and personal modifications that would be thrown elsewhere for permissions