From what you said, I'm not sure you played ToH's quest line. The mod *IS* about humiliating the player character. There are a lot of spread out encounters but the "main quest" is what ties the lot together, and it's a more cohesive experience. And I always frown when I see the quality of dialogue being pointed to as an issue - it happens a lot, especially at F95, don't know why. The author of ToH is clearly not a native English speaker, he literally states so at the very top of the page: " Firstly, I apologise for my English - it's not my first language." Meanwhile, the community has stepped up and has the MA's blessing:
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(you can grab an elevenlabs voice pack made for that English version, too).
Not denying you the right to hate the mod! It is what it is, my argument is that it does its thing well enough. If you go about triggering all of its content without ever starting the main quest, I can see how it feels like a bunch of hate episodes packed together. The trick with this mod is to avoid triggering those episodes, and focus on advancing the main quest. In the end, if you choose to, you can take your revenge. Meanwhile, there's plenty of humiliation to go around. You can disable what you don't like (for instance, I can't stand scat, or anything related to licking dirty asses, or dirty boots. Such a classic, but I can't stand it - turn it off).
Again, you're pretty much in your right to hate the mod, just thought it deserved a counter-opinion
And the author isn't an asshole making fun of players, he engages quite a bit with the community and there's good following there.