You asked for Anime Style, so I'd recommend Noxurtica's games. Namely Mistress vs Slave, BDSM Apocalypse, and his upcoming Apocalypse Slave x Master.
Both apocalypse games let you choose at the beginning if you want to be submissive or dominant.
Mistress vs Slave is a bit weird though. In the full steam version (which you can find somewhere in the comments of the thread) you dominate an elf that has been forced into being your prisoner. However...
later in the game, after the first arc, some agreement you made backfires and you're put in the place of having to submit while you solve the problem. I haven't played it myself, so can't give much more detail.
There's also Unholy Arts, a game I cannot sing my praises to enough. It's not
anime style, it's text-based (Twine HTML), but the art for the characters looks
anime style. Made by DeepInteractivity, you're one of six candidates who visit a Temple, in which your goal is to rise above the others and achieve the title of Holy Priestess.
The game involves socializing with other candidates, twisting their agendas, or forcing them to submit in sexfights. The great thing is, the AIs have just as much agency to do exactly the same to you. Without cheats, it's actually a battle to dominate the others, and if you want, you could easily coerce them into dominating you.
Here's the Patreon link to the latest version, which you can use the cheat menu and other features in:
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And here's the latest free version on Itch.io:
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The game is still in development, but the developer is passionate and updates the game regularly, and is active in his discord with the community.
Damn this just became an ad for unholy arts...
Edit: mistress vs slave and unholy arts are lesbian.
Unholy arts is canonically futa, though you can disable the futa in settings before starting the game.