You partially quoted me only to revive the bitching about something that was patched 2+ years ago, because I already addressed that in my post - that you conveniently left out so that you could bitch. Which only proves my point:
it's not netorare, but netorase (at worst). Fans of netorare wouldn't enjoy either of the feints you mention -- though hardline netorare haters did get their knickers in a bunch for the first one, initially, because Uberpie didn't put it behind an optional decision tree until later.
The average player who doesn't care one way or the other and the average player who isn't into netorare (ntr) didn't give any fucks that it was there without the eventual optional decision choice that came later. You can tell the hardliners because even after the patch, they continue to bitch about something from over 2+ years ago that no longer matters.
EDIT, for information: the patch that was added to put it behind an optional choice was in place fewer than 10 days from the original release.