Look, it's simple.
All you do is make the trap bite down on the pillow as you plow them.
While plowing them, you guzzle a bottle of whiskey while smoking a cigar screaming something about 'fuck the normies'
Hairs will begin to grow on your chest and a big bushy beard if you do it right, at which point, the sun shades come out.
Once you've done this, your heterosexuality is firmly secure as you've proven you are a true alpha.
If someone tries to interfere you during this vital process, while continuing all of the above, you have to whip out your colt 45 and demand they leave the room immediately until you've nutted.