Nah man I wasn't arguing either. In fact I agree with you, I was just trying to point out the irony of how no one bats an eye at Netori but the second they get a whiff of another character they go wild. Even if the NTR still is non-existent.
I wish we could all just praise lostraven for his ability to accidentally NTR bait by writing a threatening antagonist.
Edit:
Not totally directed at you but to anyone unaware of how the game is being built, this is most likely intentional. The game will eventually have an NTR and sharing route (if it ever makes it that far). So they have to write a coherent story that can segway into all the other routes and still make sense.
i said this already, this happens because the forum uses all the definitions of ntr as the same tag. netori is accepted because its the mc doing it, many people see netori and netorare in diferent lights. and this cause alot of problems.
i also pointed out that, the netorare is also diverse because to some people it can be from just what is shown, to what is implied. and to some it doesnt matter if the people involved are love interests or not, if the game has 2 people fucking, and the mc isnt one of them, it is ntr.
this is why so many people ask the forum to add more ntr related tags. so they can know which the games have, and if they want it or not.
its not hard to understand. diferent people see events in diferent lights. to some, like you, it needs to go full on, but to others, just the implication is enough to be a turn off.
lets not kid ourselves, what gets people turned on or off isnt science, its a personal thing, and if someone is turned off by that, it means they are turned off by it, no amount of bashing or trying to quantify will change it.