People tend to disregard things that do not exist in real world. So you guys are on your own in that world of your own perv like futa. Hermaphrodites are super rare and i doubt they enjoy it.
Trans people, dickgirls, ladyboys do exist in real life on the other hand.
And no one cares for something that is anthropomorphic and has two sets of human genitalia. You have your crazy kink — it's your call to locate it and jerk off. Noone is oblidged to accommodate you with your proper tags and definitions.