People like me enjoy game over porn. Just cuz it isn't for you doesn't make it "stupid".
It's simple, some people like myself enjoy femdom where you don't just 'lose' (get dominated) no matter what, you have the option to win so if you submit and lose that makes it so much more enjoyable, just because it isn't your kink doesn't make it "odd and stupid".
Or, hear me out, keep that but have it unlock the losing scene by also winning.
You do you if you want to actively lose every time, but unlocking losing scenes also on winning takes basically zero effort from the dev, and expands the audience that is going to tolerate/enjoy the game. Of course, that requires having a gallery, but at this point that should be the bare minimum for any R-18 game.
Some games focused on defeat scenes implement it in a way that your progress isn't really set back, and you can continue similarly as if you won. But unfortunately there aren't many of those. Being able to save progress on the spot just before the fights also makes this much more bearable.
If your progress is significantly set back by losing, forcing a loss
*is* bad game design. It's just that a lot of R-18 devs have conditioned players to tolerate bullshit ass-backwards game design, all for the chance to get some JPEGs
