Wow. I did NOT expect so many replies and so many positive ones too. Thought I was in the minority when it comes to this. Makes me feel a bit better about all this crap. I'll try to reply to some stuff.
I don't want to be overly pessimistic (it's a bit hard not to though), I don't think it's ALL slop. There's probably a few okay ones, more likely among the non voiced ones, but it's not my sort of thing.
I don't have as big of an issue, personally, with there being patreon content. I haven't ever paid for any myself, but honestly, if a creator was actually consistently good and it was cheap, maybe I would. Also, I should've said this already: thanks a lot for everyone posting stuff here!! It's made checking the content and reaching this conclusion a lot easier.
Fair, fair...though honestly I don't mind it getting spicy (femdom does tend to be my favorite thing) as long as it's...you know, not extreme...nor consisting in just hating the viewer. I wouldn't even mind all these shitty
So true

Sorry but why the heck would I pay monthly (or even bother to check at all) for someone to call me all sort of shitty stuff (dirty talk's not the same as just trying to make the viewer miserable) and so on? Nahhh, no thanks, I'm here for my unhealthy focus on escapism not being made to feel worse.
Aaaanyways, tldr: feel way better after seeing that I'm not the only one thinking like this. Well. If any of you want recommendations for...content (the manga kind, not jois) feel free to leave me a message in private. I've recently found a site that has pretty good stuff that I haven't found elsewhere, but I'm sort of worried that it'll get striked down or purged eventually. Can also recommend some animators, but, once again, probably better in private messages as to not fill this thread with unrelated things.