Im not sure about the name, but a few more details might help, let me know if it is the same with the one I'm thinking of.
I did play a game with a female protagonist, that had some kind of amnesia, witch, actually, at first you wake up in a forest, you have to put up with orks and stuff, there is a village in which you start working as a bartender, and such, then there is this mountaing where you stumble across this group of people whom's whole purpose is to impragnate women, I believe.
And yeah, as you explore places, you get rap*d, in case you loose the fight, either by wolfs/dogs, orcks or men/women, there was this tentacle thing in the desert area as well.