Again, you have to count the big city effect that will affect your perception of how common cheating actually is. And also, you have to count the "youtube men rage" and "porntube" effects that makes you think everyone is cheating all the time. Cheating is an intense fear, and people capitalize that fear to make money, for example, writting visual novels that plays with your feelings hahaha. If you decide to coup with it with avoidance, or suffering, or trying to jump on the bullie side of things, everyone is reacting with strong feelings at the end of the day.
In my life experience, cheating happens a lot, way more than the 13/15%, specially at the 18/30 years old range, but it's not like the black pill doomers claiming like 60/70%. The reason why real life don't look even remotely close to AVNs is because women's biology pushes them to search for a real project with a real man, and when they find this out, they do settle for years without cheating. It's not natural for women to do the bimbo+whore thing, that is socially induced behaviour that creates LOTs of trauma to those women, and that is why it's kinda spread but not even close to be the norm. Women's hardware do not work like that.
As you grow up, cheating is different, less common and more of a one time event or one small period of chaos to introduce excitement in your life. Everyone knows you have less quality options, both partners. Everyone knows children and families are hard to mantain alone. Everyone has lifes full of entaglements, familiar, friendships, financial, psychological. Everyone hormones do not peak so high. Etc... This makes the final percentages reduce, masking what you actually experience in your 20s.
Anyhow, if you are in your 20s in 2023, you should be working your ass of into becoming someone, puting your D in everything available that comes close to you without any single trace of doubt, and using relationships to learn about them as an observer rather than being the pathetic platonic lover, otherwise you will never be prepared to handle women's reality when the time comes. And also, remember, women are not like AVNs, are not like porn, but also not like youtube men rage channel portrait them to be, those are society outliers.
In my life experience, cheating happens a lot, way more than the 13/15%, specially at the 18/30 years old range, but it's not like the black pill doomers claiming like 60/70%. The reason why real life don't look even remotely close to AVNs is because women's biology pushes them to search for a real project with a real man, and when they find this out, they do settle for years without cheating. It's not natural for women to do the bimbo+whore thing, that is socially induced behaviour that creates LOTs of trauma to those women, and that is why it's kinda spread but not even close to be the norm. Women's hardware do not work like that.
As you grow up, cheating is different, less common and more of a one time event or one small period of chaos to introduce excitement in your life. Everyone knows you have less quality options, both partners. Everyone knows children and families are hard to mantain alone. Everyone has lifes full of entaglements, familiar, friendships, financial, psychological. Everyone hormones do not peak so high. Etc... This makes the final percentages reduce, masking what you actually experience in your 20s.
Anyhow, if you are in your 20s in 2023, you should be working your ass of into becoming someone, puting your D in everything available that comes close to you without any single trace of doubt, and using relationships to learn about them as an observer rather than being the pathetic platonic lover, otherwise you will never be prepared to handle women's reality when the time comes. And also, remember, women are not like AVNs, are not like porn, but also not like youtube men rage channel portrait them to be, those are society outliers.
