Dryme
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I hope it's not an open marriage...For a very long time. I'm old and stuff.
I hope it's not an open marriage...For a very long time. I'm old and stuff.
My wife knows that I watch porn and play games. Why?So Does your wife mind what you do on this site? Isn't that cheating?
Had a buddy with an open marriage. He insisted up and down that it was fine and would work. Three years later his wife is now with (married? not sure) one of the girls he was with. So no, that's just complications I don't need.I hope it's not an open marriage...
Why cheating? I can't explain why I think that, I just feel that way....My wife knows that I watch porn and play games. Why?
Insecurity most likely. Not an insult.Why cheating? I can't explain why I think that, I just feel that way....
Insecurity
For a man, it's always an insultNot an insult
For immature men maybe. It's not an insult because finding someone you can actually trust is hard. Finding someone where that trust goes both ways is even harder. And it takes a long damn time to establish that trust. Not feeling secure in a relationship is, by definition, insecurity. So no, I'm not saying overly worried or weak, I'm saying don't feel secure.For a man, it's always an insult![]()
The only thing we won't get back with betrayal is Our time.For immature men maybe. It's not an insult because finding someone you can actually trust is hard. Finding someone where that trust goes both ways is even harder. And it takes a long damn time to establish that trust. Not feeling secure in a relationship is, by definition, insecurity. So no, I'm not saying overly worried, I'm saying don't feel secure.
Men have emotions. Even you.The only thing we won't get back with betrayal is Our time.
There is no pain that cannot be overcomeMen have emotions. Even you.
One Frenchman still "won" this lottery.Had a buddy with an open marriage. He insisted up and down that it was fine and would work. Three years later his wife is now with (married? not sure) one of the girls he was with. So no, that's just complications I don't need.
Bullshit. Sure, MOST pain can be overcome, but as an example, my father was a hard core, old school, rough neck, mid-western guy born in the 40s. John Wayne kind of approach to this kind of thing. He still woke up screaming and upset from shit that happened in the 60s/70s until the day he died.There is no pain that cannot be overcome
The french are exempt from my statement, too damn weird to comprehend usually.One Frenchman still "won" this lottery.
https://f95zone.to/threads/is-dating-even-worth-it-nowadays.246466/post-16339816
Well, we're all different and there's no unbreakable ones, but time heals, it heals.Bullshit. Sure, MOST pain can be overcome, but as an example, my father was a hard core, old school, rough neck, mid-western guy born in the 40s. John Wayne kind of approach to this kind of thing. He still woke up screaming and upset from shit that happened in the 60s/70s until the day he died.
I'll figure it out one day.too damn weird to comprehend usually.
Yes? Then why can we cum without the other person's real touch? Okay. I just appreciate what's inside more, namely the feelings than the flesh. Feelings can't be controlled, they don't lie. Being jealous of watching porn is old-fashioned, I know, but so far I haven't found a convincing excuse. Or maybe I'm just insecure and immature.As long there isn't any real sex with other people, it isn't cheating.
It doesn't necessarily have to do with being insecure or immature, but it can also be your childhood or the culture you grew up in. Religion can also play a important role in this.Yes? Then why can we cum without the other person's real touch? Okay. I just appreciate what's inside more, namely the feelings than the flesh. Feelings can't be controlled, they don't lie. Being jealous of watching porn is old-fashioned, I know, but so far I haven't found a convincing excuse. Or maybe I'm just insecure and immature.
Too caught up in the physical. The act of orgasming is tertiary to the whole deal. Technically a guy can orgasm by smacking his dick against a tree. It's the emotional where the pain comes in. When a person develops an emotional attachment to not you. People who can't separate the physical from the emotional are just out of luck. They're doomed to be paranoid and insecure and get into online arguments saying stupid shit like "Then why can we cum without the other person's real touch?"Yes? Then why can we cum without the other person's real touch? Okay. I just appreciate what's inside more, namely the feelings than the flesh. Feelings can't be controlled, they don't lie. Being jealous of watching porn is old-fashioned, I know, but so far I haven't found a convincing excuse. Or maybe I'm just insecure and immature.