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[MoonlitWhisper]

I haven't played that far in this game to see the exact content, but I generally wouldn't think of it as a problem at all. Not in a game or IRL. My wife has talked to me about other guys she was with before we met, and I think its hot. She's made the choice to be with me, not the other guy, so why should I worry about it? And so in the context of a game or a story, is confusing to me as to why it would be a problem too, unless the MC is absolutely terrified that his wife is going to run off.

I'm not worried at all that she might leave me.
And the MC in this game isn't sweating that either.
So, the MC and his girlfriend are lying in bed, hooking up, and right in that moment, the FMC starts talking about the amazing sex she had with her ex-boyfriend..how huge he was, all that stuff.
The great sex or the size itself isn't really the issue. The problem is she's telling me something she’d kept hidden until now. Even that alone wouldn't be a dealbreaker, but she was her *boyfriend*. They were in love. They had a whole romance going on. Again, fine on its own. But when she’s rubbing it in my face with so much enthusiasm.....even if she's just teasing..when you mix all those elements together... I’m just not into it. And this is something completely outside the realm of wife or girlfriend sharing.
It would’ve been better if you could just skip this part in the game. Like, I have zero issues with the fact that it happened in the past, but I’d prefer it stayed buried. Because he was her boyfriend, not just some random guy in a sharing scenario. I have a problem with the emotional side of it. If your wife tells you she was in love with someone else before you, you might start wondering: who did she love more? Did circumstances just stop her from marrying him? Those questions start popping into my head.
I’m not even talking directly about this specific game anymore; I’m talking about the whole idea of "hey, let's chat about my ex-boyfriend."

 

[PonderingPotatoPal]

I'm not worried at all that she might leave me.
And the MC in this game isn't sweating that either.
So, the MC and his girlfriend are lying in bed, hooking up, and right in that moment, the FMC starts talking about the amazing sex she had with her ex-boyfriend..how huge he was, all that stuff.
The great sex or the size itself isn't really the issue. The problem is she's telling me something she’d kept hidden until now. Even that alone wouldn't be a dealbreaker, but she was her *boyfriend*. They were in love. They had a whole romance going on. Again, fine on its own. But when she’s rubbing it in my face with so much enthusiasm.....even if she's just teasing..when you mix all those elements together... I’m just not into it. And this is something completely outside the realm of wife or girlfriend sharing.
It would’ve been better if you could just skip this part in the game. Like, I have zero issues with the fact that it happened in the past, but I’d prefer it stayed buried. Because he was her boyfriend, not just some random guy in a sharing scenario. I have a problem with the emotional side of it. If your wife tells you she was in love with someone else before you, you might start wondering: who did she love more? Did circumstances just stop her from marrying him? Those questions start popping into my head.
I’m not even talking directly about this specific game anymore; I’m talking about the whole idea of "hey, let's chat about my ex-boyfriend."

haha, I get scared whenever the topic of an ex-boyfriend comes up. because they were in love, and there must have been reasons for that love, right? maybe he was her type, or she really liked his character, or whatever. so, there’s a chance they could fall in love again.it’s definitely a possibility. Overall, I don't know exactly why, but I’m not a fan of this idea either

 

[Logan1377]

I'm not worried at all that she might leave me.
And the MC in this game isn't sweating that either.
So, the MC and his girlfriend are lying in bed, hooking up, and right in that moment, the FMC starts talking about the amazing sex she had with her ex-boyfriend..how huge he was, all that stuff.
The great sex or the size itself isn't really the issue. The problem is she's telling me something she’d kept hidden until now. Even that alone wouldn't be a dealbreaker, but she was her *boyfriend*. They were in love. They had a whole romance going on. Again, fine on its own. But when she’s rubbing it in my face with so much enthusiasm.....even if she's just teasing..when you mix all those elements together... I’m just not into it. And this is something completely outside the realm of wife or girlfriend sharing.
It would’ve been better if you could just skip this part in the game. Like, I have zero issues with the fact that it happened in the past, but I’d prefer it stayed buried. Because he was her boyfriend, not just some random guy in a sharing scenario. I have a problem with the emotional side of it. If your wife tells you she was in love with someone else before you, you might start wondering: who did she love more? Did circumstances just stop her from marrying him? Those questions start popping into my head.
I’m not even talking directly about this specific game anymore; I’m talking about the whole idea of "hey, let's chat about my ex-boyfriend."

OK. I think that this is something that different people just have different feelings on, I suppose. For me, if you're an adult and dating some with a past and dating history, it should often be assumed that they've had feelings for others before you. Its just, default IMO. Relationships run their course and either end or they don't, and if they end, there's typically some reason for it. So unless it was something along the lines of he dumped her and she never got over it or stopped wanting him back, then to me it shouldn't be an issue or a problem.

But again, a person's own life experiences and age likely play a part into this. I was almost 30 when I got married, and my wife and I both had multiple relationships before that, along with others we'd dated or hooked up with. It all builds who you are and you move on from it, and hopefully up. If you're lucky, it makes your "final" relationship stronger because of it.

 

[SinisterPortal]

I don't like to hear about her past "adventures" either, even in a sharing game. Tbh when it was in a long term relationship it's better than when she tells me about her random hookups. Ayumi told about that rich playboy from her work, who was stupid, brazen and obnoxious, but sexually attractive and pushy enough to get what he wants. And he just fucked her in the office. It's been a while since I played it, but as I remember it felt like he fucked her just to add her to his list of conquered females, no feelings or anything. And surely it's not cheating as it was before Ayumi and Kento (the MC) met, but the vibe I got was like I got retrospectively NTR'd by that guy, lol. I certainly didn't like that part. I know, past partners is a trope in Japanese NTS games. Almost every Japanese NTS I played had this moment when the wife/gf tells about her rich sexual past and the MC gets very hard from that. But I can't relate, I don't want to hear about her sex with other men before we met, even if I'm willing to share her in present. And especially I don't like to hear about sex with a guy who looks like the typical NTR antagonist.

Another problem for me was that ex-slut personality doesn't fit Ayumi's appearance and demeanor. She looks and talks a lot like an innocent girl, "first love material". And that dissonance was also kind of off-putting.

 

[blkcrow20]

Another NTS AI game:

(1,676) Ren'Py - Our Quiet Temptation [Ch1 - v1] [Sinful Valley Adventures]

It's quite similar to Moonripple Lake (the FMC is quite skinny in comparison, but very pretty) and the starting is very promising

It doesn't say anything about NTS or sharing and in the planned tags it says NTR.

 

[MoonlitWhisper]

Another problem for me was that ex-slut personality doesn't fit Ayumi's appearance and demeanor. She looks and talks a lot like an innocent girl, "first love material". And that dissonance was also kind of off-putting.

Spot on! That was the whole hook--the massive anticipation of seeing how Ayumi would react to a huge piece. You know, the visual shock, touching it, going down on it... all the "what ifs." But the second I realized she’s already experienced something that size--matching the MC’s buddy--it just totally killed the vibe. The excitement just fizzled out.
And I’m gonna keep it real with you, it basically turned Ayumi into a slut in my book. I mean, think about the optics: you’re letting some guy you’re not in a relationship with--a dude who’s clearly bad news, basically a walking NTR antagonist--just smash you without a second thought? What else do you call that? That’s slut behavior. I really wish they hadn’t thrown that into the rework; it just doesn't sit right. Torimiata