CursedByAll
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It should always be a game of attractions, for all involved. Something that is wanted, not forced in any way, or even tolerated by one or other. That attraction should build to a point, a point where a decision is made, in light of ALL that has gone before, in consideration of ALL involved. Whether present or not, though I would always prefer both present where possible. And at least dialogue. The dialogue is sometimes more important than the act.Its the absolute polar opposite of anything that I'm into or want to see. It may be vanilla, but I really want all of the characters in any porn game to be sexy, and for the woman involved to generally be very attracted to them. In sharing/swinging/open relationship situations, the hottest ones for me are when she gradually becomes more and more turned on at the idea of both being more open and in the particular man in question. Now, that doesn't mean that I want her to shame/humiliate/abandon her original man and dump him for the other(s), because that's also not my cup of tea at all. But if she's naturally attracted to the other guy and then her husband/bf becomes aware of it and nudges her along and/or tells her that he's ok with it (depending on the setup), that's far more preferable.
If a particular kink is "discovered" somehow, and then explored, then okay, because there is an awareness.
But if something outrageous is done just for the point of shame or humiliation to a non-participating partner, not their excitement, then its probably off-limits and should be avoidable at the very least.
And yes, generally, "ugly" should not be a factor. Attraction should be the goal and the reason. (Maybe unless someone is having an agreed "slut-day" either/or)