What do you guys and girls do when you buy adult stuff and you get older?

[morphnet]

detailed read right there, I understand m8 I remember those days when I could pull all nighters, there was this one time back in 2003 when I played this private server of world of warcraft may have been 2004 can't remembner, but I got addicted I was in my 20's and I easily played for 30 something hours before napping during the day for a few hours, then going to bed properly on the same day. Although 80's and 90's were the better days, I have to admit the early 2000's had it's charm too with online gaming at the peak. Now I think everything is shit every single damn thing in life is shit from games to how women think and talk. I wish I had my life together in the 90's I wouldn't be fucked up right now.

Fun fact I used to have newspapers and old magazines of porn, I actually took a picture of them for nostalgic reasons then ripped them up and threw them in the trash, I also took down all the posters of women because come on I grew up, it's not cool to invite women round when your in your 40's and you have posters of half naked women on he wall lmao. At least I learned how to be cool when I grew up. If I could go back in time I would tell myself m8 this is how you pickup women lol.

In my personal opinion the coolest thing a person can do is be themselves. Trying to be what others want or expect is too much work. As for everything these days being shit, you just need to find your people out there. If flat earthers and people who like to make their cars bounce can find their place so can just about anyone.

Talking about bringing a woman home with posters of naked women up, as I mentioned it is sad that porn has a stigma attached to it but there are two things to remember, one, if you brought a woman home and told her you like to spend most days reading and all she wanted to do is eat out and go dancing every night, that would lead to the same ending with her.
Two, these days there are a lot more open minded people, despite the stigma and their are women out there who have their own posters of naked women and naked men up.

The going back in time thing, I think most people can relate to but I'm almost positive that even if we could, our old selves would not listen lol. I got a lot of advice from older people on life and love when I was younger and the only thing I listened to was "always have at least 4 pairs of spare socks handy"

FYI to any young people reading this, having spare socks really is great advice and when you wash the pair you wore, you can wrap it around your neck to let them dry.

 

[Shizusan]

In my personal opinion the coolest thing a person can do is be themselves. Trying to be what others want or expect is too much work. As for everything these days being shit, you just need to find your people out there. If flat earthers and people who like to make their cars bounce can find their place so can just about anyone.

Talking about bringing a woman home with posters of naked women up, as I mentioned it is sad that porn has a stigma attached to it but there are two things to remember, one, if you brought a woman home and told her you like to spend most days reading and all she wanted to do is eat out and go dancing every night, that would lead to the same ending with her.
Two, these days there are a lot more open minded people, despite the stigma and their are women out there who have their own posters of naked women and naked men up.

The going back in time thing, I think most people can relate to but I'm almost positive that even if we could, our old selves would not listen lol. I got a lot of advice from older people on life and love when I was younger and the only thing I listened to was "always have at least 4 pairs of spare socks handy"

FYI to any young people reading this, having spare socks really is great advice and when you wash the pair you wore, you can wrap it around your neck to let them dry.

Ahh sadly that's not how the world works anymore, that is what it was like in the 80's and before my dad said in the 50's too, maybe the 90's started to become more superficial, women became more superficial men became more superficial slowly slowly since the 90's and more aparent in the early 2000's come 2010+ it got so bad, now 2023 women and men most are all superficial and you have to be cool, have money, own your own car house, go out and have lots of friends to be more appealing to women. Trust me on this I used to be fat and ugly, i hit gym for 6 years and 4 of those years i did 10 hours a day, I made myself look so lit that I started to get beautiful women come upto chat to me, over the years I learned how to talk to women this way, the moment I got fat during pandemic, they didn't look at me anymore. lol point is women are 99% all supercial. Most men are superficial too, but more like 70-80% in comparison to women's 99%.

I blame social media, those influencer women it made girls grow up to be all fake and want fake people. lol though there is many truth in your words too.

 

[morphnet]

Ahh sadly that's not how the world works anymore, that is what it was like in the 80's and before my dad said in the 50's too, maybe the 90's started to become more superficial, women became more superficial men became more superficial slowly slowly since the 90's and more aparent in the early 2000's come 2010+ it got so bad, now 2023 women and men most are all superficial and you have to be cool, have money, own your own car house, go out and have lots of friends to be more appealing to women. Trust me on this I used to be fat and ugly, i hit gym for 6 years and 4 of those years i did 10 hours a day, I made myself look so lit that I started to get beautiful women come upto chat to me, over the years I learned how to talk to women this way, the moment I got fat during pandemic, they didn't look at me anymore. lol point is women are 99% all supercial. Most men are superficial too, but more like 70-80% in comparison to women's 99%.

I blame social media, those influencer women it made girls grow up to be all fake and want fake people. lol though there is many truth in your words too.

I get what you are saying but remember that there are women out there that grew up at the same time you did and that are missing the old days just like you are. Sure they are harder to find now but they are out there. Chances are they have some of the same tastes because of how and when they grew up, so finding a community that shares those tastes increases your chances of meeting like minded people.

There are a few places you could start with like community chat sites, there are also forums out there dedicated to golden oldies (mainly discussing music but have sections for other things too), which used to mean 50's and 60's but now mean 70's and 80's.

I agree on the influencer part but it is also male influencers as they are telling women what guys are looking for these days and the number of hash tag twerking hash tag hotthot there are pretty bad

 

[Shizusan]

I get what you are saying but remember that there are women out there that grew up at the same time you did and that are missing the old days just like you are. Sure they are harder to find now but they are out there. Chances are they have some of the same tastes because of how and when they grew up, so finding a community that shares those tastes increases your chances of meeting like minded people.

There are a few places you could start with like community chat sites, there are also forums out there dedicated to golden oldies (mainly discussing music but have sections for other things too), which used to mean 50's and 60's but now mean 70's and 80's.

I agree on the influencer part but it is also male influencers as they are telling women what guys are looking for these days and the number of hash tag twerking hash tag hotthot there are pretty bad

Yeah definitely harder to find because I'm in my 40's now bro actually literally near mid 40's to find a single woman that I can relate to is difficult, my last g/f was too young at 18 while I was 39 lol. Anyways she only fancied me just for sex that bitch. Settling down is really hard when you get old, I'm never going to have kids because most women who are single that I also try to find compatible are superficial that is fact from my experiences.

When I did find a girl my own age, you know she was crazy lol, talk about unlucky she was my type too. She kept trying to get me to cut my hair or get this particular job, and then she started hitting on multiple guys I was like ok I'm out fuck this lol.

Yes you are right it is also male influencers as well, male and female youth influencers causing younger minds to get messed up, and then they grow up to be superficial and influencers too, it's now a never ending cycle thanks to social media, instagram and facebook, tiktok and whatever else. I have to admit I almost fell in the trap, when I got really good looking, posting pictures on facebook, I started to feel like an influencer, making women crave hot guys on my social media, so when I realised it I deleted them all except for youtube and twitter I don't post in them. Just check the occasional news and YOU style stalk one of my fav actresses in the 90's lol but I stopped that caause it's not her anyways lol.

I started late in life, and thanks to social media I'm single because I don't have the status women want to have kids with.

 

[eroGio]

now 2023 women and men most are all superficial and you have to be cool, have money, own your own car house, go out and have lots of friends to be more appealing to women.

A lot of it depends on where you're looking. There are plenty of broke, fat guys that manage to have girlfriends/wives. If you're looking for women online, you're going to find different women than you'd find working next to you at your job. If you want to bang an Instagram model, you better be the male equivalent. If you want to hook up with Natalie from accounting, the bar's gonna be a lot lower.

 

[Shizusan]

A lot of it depends on where you're looking. There are plenty of broke, fat guys that manage to have girlfriends/wives. If you're looking for women online, you're going to find different women than you'd find working next to you at your job. If you want to bang an Instagram model, you better be the male equivalent. If you want to hook up with Natalie from accounting, the bar's gonna be a lot lower.

Yeah for sure, but I think my aim was more against hot women lol It be rare to find a hot girl that is into fat guys or guys with no job actually you have better chance in getting hit by lightning twice lol. Yes of course it's a double standard when it comes to how hot the person is, that's why I hit the gym for nearly 10 years lol. Though let me tell you something I got really good looking and although I banged 1 woman and 1 girl just turned 18 I couldn't keep them because they wanted a guy with stability, I had to lie to get them to get them in bed, I actually live with my mum, don't have a drivers license or a car for that matter, of course they would reject me even though I looked good if they knew the truth. Thus why superficial, I bet even the fat chicks would use me then dump me when they know I'm useless in life lol.

Everything adds up, how good looking you are, if you have a cool job, how much money you make, if you have a cool car with a license, how well you are groomed, cool hairstyle, having your own place, with lots of friends in your life that look upto you, how confident you are, make her laugh etc.. everything plays up and all this is down to one thing superficial lifestyle. All of these add a lot of bonus to getting with most people nowadays. It is just rare to find a woman/girl that doesn't care about any of that. There is no such thing as love these days, it's all superficial.

 

[eroGio]

It be rare to find a hot girl that is into fat guys or guys with no job

Haha, true enough. It's gonna be tough to find a decent partner if you don't make enough money to support a family. The better you have your life handled, the easier it is. On the upside, it's probably easier to get a job than it is to stop being fat and ugly lol. (not that I would know anything about that )

 

[Shizusan]

Haha, true enough. It's gonna be tough to find a decent partner if you don't make enough money to support a family. The better you have your life handled, the easier it is. On the upside, it's probably easier to get a job than it is to stop being fat and ugly lol. (not that I would know anything about that )

Yeah I've been there m8 I've seen both worlds, it does take a few years to get out of being fat and ugly, diet is also the most important fact, cutting out carbs and bad ingredients, I learned sports nutrition and personal training while I was training all those years, In that time I could of got a job and made about 100k and the job might be one that can help me lose weight, but I chose the health club because It was more fun, just took long time. It's possible anyone can do it, but patience and will power is what you need without that breaking diet will not net you the rewards.

Thanks to the pandemic it destroyed everything I built all that time and 2 years of depression I ate my feelings and got fat again lol, fuck my life and from the sound of it your life too? lol This is why I was wondering I should probably somehow figure out a way to get rid of my porn sell it or something or just hide it and not show it if I ever hook up with a woman get married have kids etc..

if that happens I'll definitely have to be to her, oh wow where did that come from, must of been when I was 18 and now I'm going to sell it don't worry darling I'll sell it and use the money to buy you a wedding ring then you can forget you ever saw it? lol.

 

[eroGio]

Yeah I've been there m8 I've seen both worlds, it does take a few years to get out of being fat and ugly, diet is also the most important fact, cutting out carbs and bad ingredients, I learned sports nutrition and personal training while I was training all those years, In that time I could of got a job and made about 100k and the job might be one that can help me lose weight, but I chose the health club because It was more fun, just took long time. It's possible anyone can do it, but patience and will power is what you need without that breaking diet will not net you the rewards.

Thanks to the pandemic it destroyed everything I built all that time and 2 years of depression I ate my feelings and got fat again lol, fuck my life and from the sound of it your life too? lol This is why I was wondering I should probably somehow figure out a way to get rid of my porn sell it or something or just hide it and not show it if I ever hook up with a woman get married have kids etc..

if that happens I'll definitely have to be to her, oh wow where did that come from, must of been when I was 18 and now I'm going to sell it don't worry darling I'll sell it and use the money to buy you a wedding ring then you can forget you ever saw it? lol.

Haha, the right woman will enjoy your porn with you

 

[forbidden101v]

I feel like I'm honestly getting too old to be hiding my porn and sex toys like a teenager from my family so I imagine at some point I'll be more open about it assuming the topic comes up. That being said I think I'll test the waters before I mention the more extreme categories as some people have a nasty habit of mixing up fiction with reality.

On the upside, it's probably easier to get a job than it is to stop being fat and ugly lol.

From personal experience I find it's easier to stop being fat than find a job. Losing fat is just a matter of exercising regularly and watching your diet. Finding a job means finding someone who is willing to hire you.

 

[Shizusan]

I feel like I'm honestly getting too old to be hiding my porn and sex toys like a teenager from my family so I imagine at some point I'll be more open about it assuming the topic comes up. That being said I think I'll test the waters before I mention the more extreme categories as some people have a nasty habit of mixing up fiction with reality.

From personal experience I find it's easier to stop being fat than find a job. Losing fat is just a matter of exercising regularly and watching your diet. Finding a job means finding someone who is willing to hire you.

The thing about diet and exercise is will power, if you lack the will power the difficulty spike is insanity. If you got the will power it maybe easy, but getting any job should technically be far easier if you have the will to work, end of the day it's all about the will power(determination, resolve) and the individual which determines how easy or hard things are. The saying where there is a will there's a way is very true. By the way If you test the waters can you let us know here what they said and what their reactions were?

 

[Gabaw]

It's been a treat reading what is essentially a thin vertical slice of your life story. It's a question that comes up often for me as well, and I'm not planning to kick the bucket anytime soon.

The items I have physically are things you'd find in just about any male's secret stash - normal pocket pussies and the occasional vanilla DVD. The vast majority of all my entertainment is 1's and 0's in a drive. Of those items, however, I'd like to be sure that they're thrown away and never found or tied back to me in any way. I have no sentimental attachments to porn and paraphenelia whatsoever. Sliced, diced, and into the dumpster it goes in an opaque, nondescript bag.

I also regularly burn any sensitive financial and identity documents as soon as I no longer need them. I'd kill to see the person who's sentimental about their 2007 tax return - historical recordkeeping notwithstanding, of course.