At 7:30 in the morning, which it is now, a filter coffe and a croissant
Banging (not my preferred terminology), for me (and given how I look first thing in the morning for anyone else), is better in the afternoon
I prefer my own place as I have full access to all my toys, lubes, and other fun items. Also, using one's own place means you can avoid any hidden surprises the other spouse might have left behind