Why doesn't it get as much hate as NTR? Girls with dicks and vaginas at the same time? Why does it fascinate us? Do you like Futanari? Why? And who are you?
What's the psychology behind liking Futa?
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I see what you did there. 
A touch more interesting then hating NTR, psychologically speaking. I've found that most people that "hate" futa tend not to think beyond playing as a male MC. It's like it doesn't enter their mind that you can have a futa or femc. So they view futa as "gay" regardless of context.
A touch more interesting then hating NTR, psychologically speaking. I've found that most people that "hate" futa tend not to think beyond playing as a male MC. It's like it doesn't enter their mind that you can have a futa or femc. So they view futa as "gay" regardless of context.
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You kept your powder dry for so long, now you're just going to start shooting your loads so quickly? tsk tsk...
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I find the combination of female body with addition of a cock appealing and deeply attractive, even if it is within the realm of fantasy. And I'm Psychic Stress.
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Obviously liking futa is like having your psychiatrist on speed dial, and finding yourself triggered by everything that happens around you.
Headpats? Triggering.
Hand holding? Triggering!
Sweet sweet love and affection with emotional attachment? Triggering!
Someone prove me wrong.
Headpats? Triggering.
Hand holding? Triggering!
Sweet sweet love and affection with emotional attachment? Triggering!
Someone prove me wrong.
...Obviously liking futa is like having your psychiatrist on speed dial, and finding yourself triggered by everything that happens around you.
Headpats? Triggering.
Hand holding? Triggering!
Sweet sweet love and affection with emotional attachment? Triggering!
Someone prove me wrong.
Hey, wait a minute!
I got some news that I'm unclear is either good or bad for you, but I know some girls who are packing more than my perfectly adequate five inches.
Edit: No stealth vagina though, sorry, least I haven't seen anyone have vaginaplasty but keep their hog, anyway
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What's the psychology behind making What's the psychology threads?
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For myself I think the path was something like:
I like girls ->
I like porn where girls have sex ->
Whoa, here is some porn with more than one girl having sex, cool! ->
Hmmm, I want there to be less guys in my porn, I don't find them attractive ->
What is this? Lesbian porn? ->
Hmmm, I like this porn because there aren't any guys, but I miss the sex where dick go in vagina (creampie fetish) ->
Wait! What if there is porn with only woman, but one of them has dick to have sex with the others? ->
*Discovers futanari* My life is changed forever.
Don't like NTR, which sucks that a lot of good futa porn has an NTR theme.
I like girls ->
I like porn where girls have sex ->
Whoa, here is some porn with more than one girl having sex, cool! ->
Hmmm, I want there to be less guys in my porn, I don't find them attractive ->
What is this? Lesbian porn? ->
Hmmm, I like this porn because there aren't any guys, but I miss the sex where dick go in vagina (creampie fetish) ->
Wait! What if there is porn with only woman, but one of them has dick to have sex with the others? ->
*Discovers futanari* My life is changed forever.
Don't like NTR, which sucks that a lot of good futa porn has an NTR theme.
Also guys can relate to a "penis orgasm" more than a "pussy orgasm", so seeing a futa cum is more understandable for them.
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Welp, I'm bored at work again... Might as well use this to pass some time.
So. Futas. Honestly, I primarily like futas when they're girls with dicks (preferably without balls in my case, but I don't hugely mind them with balls too if I really have too), which can impregnate and be impregnated in equal measure. There's just something hot about a single person being able to do it all. I suppose male-presenting-hermaphrodites could work for this too... but society and biology conditioned ye-olden brain to associate the female look with pregnancy and motherhood and lactation, so female-presenting-hermaphrodites are simply automatically hotter for me.
The risk/possibility of impregnation is a major fetish for me, which is why normal lesbian or gay stuff doesn't do much for me.
Sadly, there's actually little futa media where the girl with the dick penetrates and gets penetrated in equal measure. Most of the time, the futa is just a dude replacement, which is just boring. Why even make her a futa in the first place if you won't use all of her potential?! Something something, grumble grumble...
Because of that, I don't generally look for futa as a tag, because I'm likely to just be disappointed, but I don't shy away from it when I do run into it. Sometimes it's just spice, sometimes it's great, sometimes it's a massive disappointment.
As for the "but futa is gay" argument... uh... From what I know based on a couple of talks with some actual gay dudes and a couple of lesbians, neither side is particularly likely to like futas. Homosexual men are drawn to more than just dicks, and futas are more female leaning than those types generally consider attractive. Lesbians are more likely to like futas, but the hard-core ones will not tolerate them and will absolutely loathe the dick.
Thus, as far as I'm aware, futa is more of a "bisexual" or "bicurious" sort of kink, if you really have to associate it in any way with IRL sexual orientations...
However, my personal opinion is that it only means something if you want it to mean something. For a lot of people, it's just a hot, fictional fantasy. It's not like a fully functioning hermaphrodite can exist IRL with current medical science.
Btw, we're talking specifically about futanari here? Right? Cuz Futanari specifically means "both sexes", more or less. Dick girls that don't have female equipment at all are their own thing and a whole other conversation...
So. Futas. Honestly, I primarily like futas when they're girls with dicks (preferably without balls in my case, but I don't hugely mind them with balls too if I really have too), which can impregnate and be impregnated in equal measure. There's just something hot about a single person being able to do it all. I suppose male-presenting-hermaphrodites could work for this too... but society and biology conditioned ye-olden brain to associate the female look with pregnancy and motherhood and lactation, so female-presenting-hermaphrodites are simply automatically hotter for me.
The risk/possibility of impregnation is a major fetish for me, which is why normal lesbian or gay stuff doesn't do much for me.
Sadly, there's actually little futa media where the girl with the dick penetrates and gets penetrated in equal measure. Most of the time, the futa is just a dude replacement, which is just boring. Why even make her a futa in the first place if you won't use all of her potential?! Something something, grumble grumble...
Because of that, I don't generally look for futa as a tag, because I'm likely to just be disappointed, but I don't shy away from it when I do run into it. Sometimes it's just spice, sometimes it's great, sometimes it's a massive disappointment.
As for the "but futa is gay" argument... uh... From what I know based on a couple of talks with some actual gay dudes and a couple of lesbians, neither side is particularly likely to like futas. Homosexual men are drawn to more than just dicks, and futas are more female leaning than those types generally consider attractive. Lesbians are more likely to like futas, but the hard-core ones will not tolerate them and will absolutely loathe the dick.
Thus, as far as I'm aware, futa is more of a "bisexual" or "bicurious" sort of kink, if you really have to associate it in any way with IRL sexual orientations...
However, my personal opinion is that it only means something if you want it to mean something. For a lot of people, it's just a hot, fictional fantasy. It's not like a fully functioning hermaphrodite can exist IRL with current medical science.
Btw, we're talking specifically about futanari here? Right? Cuz Futanari specifically means "both sexes", more or less. Dick girls that don't have female equipment at all are their own thing and a whole other conversation...
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Yeah I also feel like the average futa is just a guy replacement and that really doesnt add much to the experience. A futa situation I find interesting is when a girl finds herself with a dick for whatever reason and then she'll get an erection and say stuff like ooh it's throbbing? Or oh no it won't go down ",,," and then she'll be jerking off and get sexually harassed in various ways and that's kinda cute and funny.
Tomorrow. Same time. Same place
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What movie is this from?
There are different interesting analysis here, but mainly I would say porn is the culprit.
Most men like girls, but gooning to so many dicks makes it unavoidable to need it in porn representation at some point. Doesn't mean you're gay. Just that you like girls but need to relate to a dick character. Only my opinion.
Personnally I'm not that attracted to futa, as it is purely fantasy. I like realistic characters, and that's why I love trans females over men and women (having tried it all).
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It's such a magical... colorless area you know. Is it gay? Is it super straight? Is there a vagina and also a penis at the same time!? Some say they are completely different things even! It's kind of crazy complex and also very simple if you ask some people.
I do have to say one thing. When for whatever reason a female character ends up with a dick appearing out of nowhere on their body, I actually enjoy the reactions, like "Why the fuck won't it go down!?" or "Does it move on its own? How the hell do men control this thing?" I think it's funny.
No... no we do not control this thing, penis sees attractive lady or man... or whatever, penis is happy to be there, then penis makes standing ovation. That's how it goes. So... women if you see a man with an erection, don't assume they are creepy assholes, once they are happy they are difficult to calm down without using the extreme ways. That bastard will stand up on its own like a curious ferret whenever it wants.
I do have to say one thing. When for whatever reason a female character ends up with a dick appearing out of nowhere on their body, I actually enjoy the reactions, like "Why the fuck won't it go down!?" or "Does it move on its own? How the hell do men control this thing?" I think it's funny.
No... no we do not control this thing, penis sees attractive lady or man... or whatever, penis is happy to be there, then penis makes standing ovation. That's how it goes. So... women if you see a man with an erection, don't assume they are creepy assholes, once they are happy they are difficult to calm down without using the extreme ways. That bastard will stand up on its own like a curious ferret whenever it wants.
I'm surprised, this thread seems more civilized than the usual NTR thread.
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