Thats is sadly too true. Can you Sir be so kind as to point me to the 1% of female protagonist games that show the sex in her pov? I only got "California Bound" game, and that got some angry comments. In Coceter, theres camera angles that say POV, i clicked it and only got the male person pov and not Tabitha! Broke immersion. As you can see im in the minority here that actually wants to be inside that girl from her pov. But most female protagonist games (if not all) are made by men for men. Hence they avoid first person female and show the sex as 3rd person. So the player doesnt feel he is gay or something creepy. Of course, my point isnt valid for text games, as the point of view cant be broken by images.
Honestly, I didn't even remember it in California Bound. And you're right, unless it's coceter I can't think of another one. I made room for 1% so that someone could come along and point out the games like them that do, but I doubt it's actually that big a number. There may also be some in the hentai games, but as so many of them are lazy with their art, allowing one static image to remain on the screen as I read wall after wall of text, I find that most japanese games don't work for me. (if anyone has some suggestions, games that have amazing art in that respect feel free to share, I'm not opposed to anime art, in fact I am probably classified as a weeb, I'm just picky)
In conclusion, aside from futa sex, which I'm fairly certain is the way to get pov scenes in Coceter, btw, or really good dramatic stories like California Bound, I don't know that anyone really treats the female protagonist with POV perspective. I wouldn't be completely opposed to it if they did, however, I do have to admit, I'm opposed to first person in Male MC as well. I think POV actually limits the frames an artist can get away with, and hate, more than anything, when I am dealing with a faceless, silent protagonist. I get that the idea is to immerse me in the character, but do that the right way, Mass Effect (in fact, Bioware from Kotor on up to ME:A even if Andromeda has issues), Fallout, Elder Scrolls, Games like Life Is Strange, Coceter Chronicles (if you need an adult example) all have what are known as Player Avatars. The character responds to your input, your decisions shape them and the world around you. It is far more immersive to imagine myself as a Cool Hero reacting to the world around me as I would react and seeing that world shape as it would around those decisions than it will ever be to put me in a POV game on rails system where I have no effect on the story, but don't worry its totally me.