no you are notis the crisis masculinity event bugged? It says I lose a bunch but then it does basically the opposite and my character regains all of his masculinity, even when getting reluctance to 3 it doesn't change it at all, really easy to stay as a dude though but makes it pretty hard to get to the chick point; or well impossible from my time playing unless I'm missing something.
basicly fem + masc =100
if you are male you see masc value
if you are female you see fem value
so when it states you loose 3 masc in female form look like you gain 3 fem
the identity loss gets rounded down so it may state you loose one but below 60 masc you loose none.