I'm just happy to not be a cheating path player, just in general. I just feel at peace only playing monogamous, poly/harem, and swinging paths in games.
I don't self insert, except on rare occasions, however I do always like to be able to relate to the character I'm playing. And there's no way in hell I can relate to someone who's a cheater (I've made very rare exceptions), and also there's no way I can relate to an MC who forgives and stays with a cheater. If it's once, and I can tell there's sincere remorse, then I could
consider it... but if you continue to cheat, showing a lack of remorse, then you can pack your shit and bounce, there's no forgiveness.
So yeah, I'm going to keep playing the hotwife/swinging path and stay away from any of that drama, I prefer to be happy.