"Play as you normally do in real life."
Me. Not a chance of that happening.
The point of playing games is get away from real life,a porn game even more so.
Intelligent and caring in RL,play a mindless brute in a game.
Shy and reserved in RL,play an exhibitionist slut.
ect..
Not only is it more fun that way,but it allows you to peek into that other mindset,even if the game is poorly done(better writing does make it more enjoyable).
If one wanted their normal life,they would likely not play many solo games.
A game is a safe place to break societal,social,and your own morality,ethics,and rules. Playing one acting like you normally do in real life is just dumb,and not all that much fun.