I think that's a good summary, unfortunately this distinction often falls apart with the "ntr forks".
By that I mean, something like when your friend Rick tells you he likes Penny, and the dissuade him is the "pure" route, brother, there's nothing pure about dumping your friend on the wayside so you can score with her easier
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Dont get me wrong, that's the path I'll usually take, but those kind of decisions aren't really "positively aligned", same with Penny's husband, he's a douchebag, but it's the principle.
I'm most recently trying a full on "good-guy" route, protecting everyone, doing the right thing, not breaking up people, and it's mighty hard.