Ah, yeah. My problem is with the "repeat" things to unlock new animations, etc. And, cause my potato pc, the quests are all black screen to me. BUT, yet, i think i've used the wrong word, "horribly" is not fit here, cause i RLY love this game. The things what botther me are the one's you have to do again, and again, and agian to see any change. And, well, after you come to know the things you said, habits, routine, yada yada, things become dificult to find what to do and where to go. BUT, it's botther ME, maybe not other players. That's the only bad thing about the game i have to say at now.There are tips in-game actually. I'm currently playing through new content for me and not really having difficulties on that end.
Other than that, while I would agree that if you're really lost an in-game immersive way to guide the player to undiscovered quests would be nice, I find that it also promotes player exploration. Checking on the villagers, learning their habits and routine, checking how their dialogues have changed since the previous event, etc.
By doing that last point alone, you'll get through many quests no problem. Not to mention there are new sex scenes that become unlocked (like Emily when she's washing the dishes... that juicy ass will taunt you no longer!). Discovering them without walkthrough feels pretty nice.
I'm looking foward for more merc leader content.