Misnomers are bound to happen. Someone on a different thread explained it like this.
Regardless, it all gets thrown in the same sack because of folks like me who don't give a shit about japanese buzzwords.
Yeah, it's kind of hypocritical ain't it? Folks are fine with having multiple sexual partners but when their sexual partners also have multiple sexual partners they lose their marbles.
Truth be told, I'm part of that group. I ain't into watching my sexual partners fuck someone else, I'd think the majority of people ain't into that shit either.
I don't know how much the place you live has changed, culturaly speaking. But usually when a man has multiple women he tends to be seen as some sort of
alpha or
chad or whatever fucking buzzword they use nowadays.
On the other hand, a woman who sleeps with multiple men it's just seen as a ho.
But I have to agree, probably everyone has seen plenty of porn games with the same usual story where the male protagonist ends up with a fucking harem or just fucks lots of women regardless. Like, no consequences whatsoever, no jealousy, nothing. Every sexual partner just agrees or never acknowledges the fact that the harem exists.
Shit gets stale, but that's what people want.